Ever since 1st time...

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Registered: 12-01-2003
Ever since 1st time...
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Mon, 08-29-2005 - 9:02pm

Ever since the 1st time we had sex ( i was a virgin)... because we have only done it once.
He's been more AVAILABLE ever since, and close to me. I mean he calls me everyday to talk to me and he always wants to come see me and come over. Before, in our relationship (before having sex)-- making him wait about 2 years--. HE never called me so many times in a day to see me or want to talk to me. --- But i know he wants to see me so we could have sex again.
The first time was great! I loved the experiance b/c it was with him. But it is just Funny how much he calls and always so sweet and nice. And when he does see me he all over me. kissing me, hugging me, telling me im "sexy". i mean what girl, doesen't want to hear all of that from their man? I LOVE IT. But, ever since the first time he has been this incredible person. BUT..BUT he still hasnt said those words "i love you."

What do you all think? He more deeper in LOVE because i gave him my love ?

p.S. he even wrote me a lil' letter on our e-mail account saying, "i just want to make you happy." -- ::blush::

thanks, Naleiya.

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Registered: 04-01-2003
Tue, 08-30-2005 - 7:04am
Love and sex are two different things. Giving a guy sex isn't going to make him love you any more, although there may be more emotions involved from either side. Sometimes love and sex go together and sometimes they are separate, but they are not the same thing.
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Registered: 12-01-2003
Tue, 08-30-2005 - 12:50pm
i agree, they arent the same thing and i didnt think that by having sex with him was going to make him love me. because i already knew beforewe had sex he loved me.