Ever had a pro ?

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Registered: 07-19-2003
Ever had a pro ?
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Thu, 06-24-2004 - 11:03am
Have you ever had sex with a partner who works on the human body for a living ? Today there are many people who understand the wiring of a body, and I really wonder what a chiropractor would be like to have as sex partner. (ya mine is hot). How about people who take Yoga or Martial Arts. I am share a Physical Therapist would be interesting. There are many little switches on the body have you ever been with some one who knows where they are.
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Registered: 05-27-2004
Thu, 06-24-2004 - 1:29pm
My partner should know where my "hot spots" are....and if he didn't, I'd tell him.

I don't think any of the "pros" you mentioned studied sexual arousal to get their license or degree, so why would they know anything about MY body and what arouses me? I'll bet there are gyno's who're clueless in bed!

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Thu, 06-24-2004 - 3:36pm

Well, I tend to agree with Greenteabag on this, just because they understand the "wiring" of the human body, does not mean they know what will turn someone on.


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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 06-24-2004 - 6:36pm
After 28 yrs. together, my DH and I KNOW where our "hot spots" are, already. Probably much better than a Dr., trainer or masseuse ever would. We're all "wired" differently so one person's "hot spot" won't be another's anyway.
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Registered: 07-19-2003
Thu, 06-24-2004 - 7:59pm
O' come on, Yes i aggree my wife also knows what i like and keeps me VERY INTRESTED. I would like to think after 30years of having sex and 13 with this partner i have learned a thing or two also. MY point is i cant read a foot chart (we have all seen the diagrams of rub the heel and heal the colin) The yoga girls seem to know about things like hip flexers and lower ab control and relaxation, the martial arts guys know to strike a small nerve clusters for certin results. Now i am just asking, can this type of knowledge be used in the bed room. If any one has been with a person who knows the body in a professional way give us a post. We are probably getting into the area of women have sex with the mind and guys with the body so i may be getting snow balls here :)
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Registered: 10-18-2001
Fri, 06-25-2004 - 1:58am
I had a brief relationship with a Dance Instructor at one time. So-so. Flexible and a good body but only so-so in bed. Too insecure about her appearance and non-existant 'fat rolls' to really relax.

I dated a training physiotherapist briefly too. Other than being able to make my back feel great by making my veterbrae pop loudly she wasn't any different in bed. I can't see how stretching muscles and popping joints would make anyone a better lover. I think that working on the body doesn't really provide you with any insights on how to _pleasure_ a body.

A sex therapist might have some good ideas.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 06-25-2004 - 5:24pm
I would think any person who is enthusiastic, likes sex, you and your body and shows it, would be great in bed....pro or not.

A person who makes his or her partner feel like a million bucks isn't necessarily the most knowledgable about physiology or sex in general.