Ever Had Sex with Your Ex?
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Ever Had Sex with Your Ex?
| Thu, 11-15-2007 - 12:13pm |
Ever Had Sex with Your Ex?
- Yes, often.
- Yes, it was great!
- Yes, but it sucked :(
- I'm thinking about it ....
- No, never in a million years.
- No, but I wish I could.
- Other, please explain.
You will be able to change your vote.


In a poll, 65% of the viewers agreed: it's a bad idea to have sex with your ex. Dr. Laura Berman says, get your emotional fixes elsewhere -- you're just setting yourself up to hurt all over again.
Share your opinions with us after taking the poll.
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I voted yes, often. Even though it's not often like I would like. But he is the only one I'm sexually active with and have been for quite sometime. I know I shouldn't be, but I do it anyway because sometimes the sex is out of this world!! Not to say it couldn't be out of this world with somebody new. But I guess the sex part is hard for both of us to break loose from. But that's all it is.
And I agree with Dr. Berman, I can easily set myself up for a world of hurt if I don't have my emotions in check. But why I'm not totally broken up is because I know why it didn't work and the only thing we have in common and going good is the sex. Although I defiantly do it, I wouldn't recommend having sex with their ex, especially if you were in love with him/her. Because usually in the end, someone or possibly both end up getting hurt and finding yourself worst off than before.
Cherron'
I had sex with an ex bf in college and it was AMAZING and we ended up back together for a few months.
Carrie
I'm sorry to hear things have come to that point in your relationship with hubby. Is there a chance that he would agree to having an open relationship?
If you're thinking of having an affair, there are a couple of links on iVillage you might want to visit. The first, When You're Tempted, offers links to articles that you might find helpful. There's also the My Affair Support message board.
I know you've been struggling with your sex life at home. Maybe considering having an affair is a sign that you and your hubby need some sort of help sorting things out. Have you thought of seeing a therapist, or a couples therapist? Often, having a third person to discuss things with can be very helpful.
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Why would I have sex with my ex, when he wanted SOOOO little of it when we were married (15 years)????
carole
Thanks for not blasting me for considering cheating, I wouldn't blame you.
Carrie
Awww, it sounds like there is a lot on your plate, Carrie. Did the two of you marry, knowing that you planned to not have children? I know for some people that thought process can change over time. I have a couple of friends that have had relationships end when one or the other partner has changed their desire for a family.
Good luck with talking to him. Hopefully you can get him to go to counseling to. If you need to come here and vent, feel free to do that too.
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