Ever had sex......

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Registered: 09-25-2004
Ever had sex......
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Sun, 02-20-2005 - 12:59pm
...with the kids in the house? I mean, not asleep, but awake? My DH and I have only done it once and that was because he was about to leave in 3 hours for two weeks..He told DD that we were going to get dressed and to just chill out a few moments..Then, w/o my knowing a thing, he's got the door shut and locked, and me flat on my back and going to town like this was the last time we'd ever make love again...I felt kind of guilty for it and thought it was disrespectful to our unsuspecting DD...This doesn't make us bad people, does it? When we do get frisky and in the mood, its always at night when she's asleep. Sometimes, DH slips into the shower with me where we make love sometimes. But, we're always making sure that DD is asleep before we make love...Anybody else slipped up and made love to their DH/SO/DW while the kids weren't so soundly asleep but playing in their rooms?

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Registered: 11-15-2003
Mon, 02-21-2005 - 12:06pm

Hi Jennie,

Yep, we've done this on occasion(quietly)...I guess that's what bedroom door locks are for :0).

Peace.
Scott.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 02-21-2005 - 1:50pm
Yes, a few times but we always made sure that they were distracted. It was usually a quickie more for my DH's benefit though since I couldn't fully relax and enjoy it for fear that they would hear or want to come in.
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Registered: 09-25-2004
Mon, 02-21-2005 - 8:21pm

My DD is always in her room playing. She's safe in there. I've made sure she can't injure herslef or worse. She can't open the window because her's is too hard to open and always locked. If she does have the TV on, its usually a movie DH and I have already approved of..Like some Disney flicks and Spirited Away, My Neighbor Totoro and Blue's Clues. We preview EVERYTHING before we bring it home to DD. She knows better than to come into our room when the door is shut. She knows not to. We have her trained so to speak. She can't figure out the locks on the front door, so we're good.

Thanks to all for the advice. :)

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Registered: 04-01-2003
Mon, 02-21-2005 - 10:03pm
Plenty of times. And I refuse to feel guilty. Why should I? or you? for being a wife to a husband and not just a mommy. Believe me, kids live with far worse than parents who occasionally indulge in sex during waking hours.
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Registered: 10-18-2003
Tue, 02-22-2005 - 8:22pm

Slipped up? Heck, I do it all the time on purpose.


That's what dvd players and vcrs were invented for.

Choose your friends by their character and your socks by their color.  Choosing your socks by their character makes no sense and choosing your friends by their color is unthinkable.

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Registered: 09-25-2004
Thu, 02-24-2005 - 8:23pm
God bless television

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