Ever make bets with your BF?
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| Thu, 07-06-2006 - 1:42am |
My BF decided, for whatever reason, that i shouldn't drink as much coffee as i do. I drink A LOT of coffe and have been for years and i really do enjoy it so he thinks that it'll be a challenge for me not to have any for about 2 weeks. Naturally, i'm a competitive person so i agreed to this bet but i also made him agree to not have pizza for a month (i wanted him to not masturbate for 2 weeks but he refused and i kind of realized that'd be a mean thing to demand lol). So not only did he admit that he eats it way more than he should, he really enjoys it and there is an AMAZING pizza place right near his apartment in nyc so i know this will be a challenge for him. Anyway, we decided to make the terms of these bets a bit playful if you will...and pretty much a win/win situation for both of us. If i don't drink coffee for the 2 weeks then he's going to (and wants to) go down on me for a half hour. If i do drink coffee then he gets to blindfold me and tie my arms down and tease me(something he's been wanting to try). If he doesn't eat pizza for a month like he says he wont then i have to watch a porno with him but if he does eat it then he's going to make me breakfast in bed and lay in bed and cuddle/have sex/relax for a good portion of the day.
I'm excited to do this because it's giving us something to look foward to as well as making us more playful with each other. I should mention that we're only seeing each other on the weekends because of our locations and his job (he's in nyc for the summer i'm in nj) and we'll be 5 hours apart at college come august. i'm just curious if any of you do similar things (make bets, etc) with your BF or SO and do you think that doing things like this can help to make a relationship stronger. i just wanted to share because i'm excited about this and also because i'm curious as to what you all think. thanks!

It sounds like fun, and THAT is how you keep a relationship interesting and fun. As you said, it's a win/win situation no matter HOW you look at it.
More people should do things like that. Sex, and sexual situations don't always have to be deadly serious......it should be "fun", too.
Keeping fun things happening in a relationship can only help a relationship, it certainly can't harm it.
We bet all the time. We used to work in traditional offices where someone would have a football pool with point spreads. We since we are not in the office anymore, we have our own football pool with point spreads and the winner names his/her sexual pleasure that they want each week. We keep stats and the season winner (usually DW) gets a prize from the non-winner (me). Last year it was a vibrator! We bet on the Kentucky Derby she had the odd number horses and I had the even. Then on the Preakness and the Belmont stakes. We are now picking pieces of paper on the World Cup games - you pick one piece of paper with a team on it and the other person has the opposing team for a sexual pleasure. Football season is only a few months away. We also bet on the NCAA Basketball Tournament.
We play strip poker and when some is naked, and the other has clothes, if the naked person loses the hand (usually me) that person has to give a 2 minute personal pleasure to the winner - foot massage, licks, kisses, feels, etc.
We also play a computer game called Bliss and a card game called "The Sex Game" - DW even purchased for us "The Kama Sutra Game" - haven't gotten to that yet.
Sports bets gets DW into watching sports (she is vested in a bet) and it also keeps thing exciting in anticipation and dynamic or constantly changing. She is even suggesting bets,but she is slow on collecting her winnings. Not me, I want my winnings as soon as possible. By betting, I got her to trim her bush down below and had her trim me. Betting also helped intoduce a vibrator to our relationship (I introduced it to her and DW loves it - why didn't we do this sooner?). I have won massages, oral, one of my favorite is for her to sit on my face (I love this and use it a one of my prizes). I would love to introduce some non-piercing nibble rings for her and maybe some prostate massages for me. One time I asked for IC on the dinning room table (winner's choice) or oral in the car on our way to a sporting event. Betting has opened our minds to new and fun things to do together - intimate things made fun!
You know if you would have offered 4 oral sessions he would have stopped masterbating for 2 weeks or a month - for the prize! You just have to up the ante! Be creative and most of all HAVE FUN!