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At every opportunity?
| Wed, 07-14-2004 - 11:45am |
Do you and your SO have sex at every opportunity you possibly can? Or do you skip opportunities and make each other wait?
One of my best friends and her husband have sex every day, sometimes more than once a day. my bf has started making us wait. We used to everry time the opportunity arose. But now, he's still very affectionate, but sex only happens once in a while, usually after a long period of waiting and being suggetive with each othr.
Which is better in your opinion?

Leticia
I know that my DH and I go through phases of having sex several times a day for a couple of weeks, and then not have sex at all for a week. We never take it for granted either.
I don't think couples should have sex just to have sex though. It's a special act to us so we like to have sex when we both want to, not as a "requirement."
IF you feel that your guy is depriving you, though, then speak up. Find a compromise.
Edited 7/14/2004 12:51 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001
They had something on the Discovery Channel about that. How all the physical touching helps keep you feeling connected. I know it's rare that I walk past DH(or him past me) and don't touch him. When he sleeps, he has to be touching me even if it is just with his foot.
Leticia
Just as long as it's not being used as an excuse for lack of interest. I don't think I'd like it if I was interested and he said, no, it hasn't been long enough since the last time! There's something a little perverse in that way of thinking. What's the reasoning behind it? Afraid it'll get boring? It shouldn't in a good relationship.