Exit Only!!!!

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Registered: 06-21-2005
Exit Only!!!!
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Wed, 06-22-2005 - 6:38pm

Wow how do I start this topic? It's about having sex in the ass or licking ass (aka tossing salad) I know that this is perfectly normal for some but for others like myself I have a hard time with this issue because of all the taboos i hear about the butt, Some being .. squeamishness, cleanliness and health issues ...ect., I often talk to my friends about this issue and most maybe all says that they love the feeling and most of time they won't have sex with out it. Now don't get me wroge I have tried it once but to tell you the truth it hurt like hell and it felt like i was about to poop lol. These feelings I was having placed my fear in me .. After all the pain I mad up my mind and came up with my own saying " EXIT ONLY DO NOT ENTER" . I want to be able to over come this fear I have and some what enjoy the sensation and pleasures that I hear so much about. Question how can I make this very pleasurable for both myself and my partner?

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Registered: 04-23-2004
In reply to: tabbs077
Sun, 06-26-2005 - 11:46am
We've been having anal for about 20 years and I've never had a problem controlling that either.

~Tish

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: tabbs077
Sun, 06-26-2005 - 12:14pm
Agree. If you or he aren't willing to take the time it takes to prepare for anal penetration, then you shouldn't be doing it.
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Registered: 04-12-2003
In reply to: tabbs077
Mon, 06-27-2005 - 12:49am
Hey Tabbs. Sometimes it does hurt if my husband thrusts too hard or if the hemmeroid (?sp) is swollen (if you have kids you most likely have one). Every once in awhile we enjoy full anal sex, but I REALLY like when he uses his finger while I stimulate myself. It did take awhile to build up to anal sex because the muscles are so much tighter, but it was well worth the wait. I say you should try to have a warm bath first, and then set the mood with some candles, body oil, etc. I agree with everyone else that you need to be completely relaxed to fully enjoy it. If after that it still doesn't feel good, then it may just not be for you. Good luck!

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