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Expectations of your partner
| Thu, 05-20-2004 - 6:40pm |
OK, my last question about duration of intercourse seems to have caused quite a bit of confusion on my meaning.
| Thu, 05-20-2004 - 6:40pm |
OK, my last question about duration of intercourse seems to have caused quite a bit of confusion on my meaning.
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FREE: "I'm like you Yas. I couldn't/wouldn't push my DH to do anything. I wouldn't even present it as a "must-do" because that adds more pressure. I don't enjoy any acts that aren't 100% enjoyed by my partner. I'm just wired that way. If it's not freely given, I don't want it."
In your last post to another thread:
JEEP: "And a lot of it has simply to do with something you said in another thread. Enthusiasm is not there. Desire to just do it, is not there. It is all about the orgasm. Yes, I love oral sex to completion, I love oral sex as forplay, I love oral sex, just for the oral sex. But I have to have the feeling that she wants what she is doing, enjoyus what she is doing, and is getting pleasure from it. If she appears to be doing it just for me, or doing it out of guilt, or feeling that it is only fair, I lose interest, and go soft."
That's exactly what I meant. If I don't feel that my DH is getting into it or aroused(particularly after he's orgasmed), I don't enjoy it no matter how noble he's being by doing it. It began the interrogation, and all I said was what you have said here. tee hee
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