Experience with large penis?

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Registered: 03-09-2005
Experience with large penis?
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Mon, 06-04-2007 - 1:17pm

I have a question for the ladies.

A couple of weeks ago my DW and I were watching a porn movie. One of the actors had a huge penis and we were both surprised by its size. She asked me if there are men that are that big and I told her yes. She wondered if a penis that big felt good.

That got my curiosity going and I looked up the actor on the internet and found dildos that are supposedly cast from him. So I ordered one so that I could surprise my wife with it.

Well, let me tell you that I am the one that got the surprise. I am average size but this thing is huge. It is 9” by 2 ½” or 7” in width. We have played with other toys and our biggest one is 7” by 2” or 6” in width but this one is bigger. I am wondering what my DW’s reaction will be.

After this long story, my question is, have any women had experiences with a penis this size or something larger than average? If so, what was your experience like? Is this something that intrigues you or would like to try?

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Registered: 10-16-2006
Sat, 06-30-2007 - 12:46pm
rlb, I have to admit that I've never been with a guy who actually wanted me to make fun of the size of his penis, or to compare it (unfavorably) with the other guys I've been with...yours seems like a unique situation. I think that if it gets him off then go for it, but you should still make it clear to him that he DOES give you orgasms, and that his size IS good enough to do the job. Maybe when you're laying in bed after sex, lightly stroking his penis, you can say "you know, honey, you aren't the longest and you aren't the shortest, but you are the thickest, and you are the best..."
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Registered: 02-28-2006
Sat, 06-30-2007 - 7:14pm
This is not the first time I've heard of this, RLB. Most commonly I've seen it go hand in hand with submissive tendencies and/or a desire to be cuckolded. Do you know if he fantasizes about you having sex with another (more well endowed) man?

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Registered: 12-05-2004
Sat, 06-30-2007 - 10:31pm
my bf is about 7.5 in length and ive never measured around, but its quite thick.. i love it and would never want more. there are some days i just cant take it and we've been together for 4 and a half years!
and i agree with the statement, its not what you've got its how you use it. very true!
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Registered: 07-05-2005
Sat, 06-30-2007 - 11:41pm
I'm fairly certain she meant that she gasped. Maybe she'll return and answer you for certain. I believe that there is a connection between penis size and how vocal women are during intercourse. I don't believe it applies to all women, but in general it does.
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Registered: 07-05-2005
Sat, 06-30-2007 - 11:52pm

Nope. Durex reached a 6.4 penis length.
It was a self measured poll though. Measured to the pubic skin.

Maybe you're thinking about Lifestyles. It reached a 5.87 length of 300 white college guys. A medical staff measured them. The measurement from the pubic skin, not the bone. If it had been measured to the pubic bone the average length probably would have been a bit over 6.5, which I base on younger men having approxminately .75 pubic fatpad (older men about 1.25 pubic fatpad. The overall average pubic fatpad is about 1"). It's hardly a definitive study.

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Registered: 06-20-2007
Sun, 07-01-2007 - 6:16am
As a matter of fact he does. He says it is his greatest fantasy and has been for about 6 years. He told his exwife about it and they did have an experience where she pleasured another man in front of him, but the other fella was about the same size. Unrelated, but after that, she cheated on him and left him. I don't know that I would want to carry out this fantasy regardles, but especially with that history I'm none to keen on bringing someone else into our bedroom.
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Registered: 02-28-2006
Sun, 07-01-2007 - 6:50am
RLB, I'm not sure I'm the best person to offer you advice on the advisability of carrying out your BF's fantasy, as DW and I are strictly monogamous in our marriage. My personal advice would be not to consider doing it just for him if it's something that you're not personally comfortable and on board with. I know there are people over on the Taboos board who are involved in open relationships/marriages who could give you more first hand advice, although your BF's fantasy is a little more complicated than a straight swing/swap situation.

If you're not opposed to bringing this into your sex life on a fantasy level you could always do so with toys, telling your BF how much more satisfying it is having the more well endowed toy inside you than his penis. Another element that seems to be common among men who share your BF's fantasy is that they enjoy having their orgasms controlled by their partner and being denied release. They also commonly enjoy having their access to intercourse restricted, and being made to satisfy their partner primarily with fingers, tongue and toys since they get off on the idea that their penis is unsatisfying to their partner and not worth their partner's time and effort having inside her.

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Registered: 06-20-2007
Sun, 07-01-2007 - 4:22pm
I'm a one man woman myself. Perhaps in younger and wilder days and with partners I wasn't truely in love with I might have felt differently but at this stage of the game it just doesn't interest me. My thought was to try and use toys and videos and talk to satisfy this interest for him. That seems like a healthier way to go to me. In fact I just recently ordered a variety of toys and movies for us to enjoy when he returns from Army school in GA in October. We've talked about them and he is excited to give that a whirl, although he says he'll always still have the fantasy. I figure there's nothing wrong with fantasy as long as we have a vital, active, amazing sex life. I mean, it's really no different than me thinking about how hot the checkout boy is. ;)
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Registered: 02-28-2006
Sun, 07-01-2007 - 5:29pm
BTW, if you (or your BF) are interested, Nenu and I recently wrote a steamy story on the Fantasies Board about a man whose wife has started cuckolding him. You can find it here. It's one of the reasons why I'm so familiar with this scene despite not having this fantasy myself, from doing research for the story.

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Registered: 06-20-2007
Sun, 07-01-2007 - 5:35pm
Perhaps I should check it out...or send it to my honey to spice things up while he's away. ;)