Experience with S&M? Anyone?
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Experience with S&M? Anyone?
| Thu, 07-14-2005 - 3:53pm |
I watched "Secretary" on the Oxygen network for the second time last night and was again, absolutely riveted. I'm wondering what this lifestyle would be like, day to day. I've had limited experience with it myself and wonder if it could be something which would make my sexual life more fulfilling. Does anyone here have any experience with such? I've seen the silly talk-shows with the saddles and the whips but it seemed like child's play to me; not something I would be interested in practicing. However, the way it was protrayed in this particular film ... I am quite intrigued to say the least.

I have definitely fantasized about S&M. I also have never really tried it, outside of a couple of ex-gfs that enjoyed being spanked. Spanking, bondage, and blindfolds are very much a turn on for me. My DW is definitely not into it, so it will always just remain in my fantasies.
What aspect of S&M intrigues you? Are you more comfortable on the receiving or giving end of it, or both? Have you tried anything like it? How do you think you SO would react to it?