Explain "Balls" to Me
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Explain "Balls" to Me
| Thu, 06-23-2005 - 12:35pm |
When reading romance novels, there is often a sexual description that involves the balls. "She teased his penis and balls." On average, how important do you think a man's balls are to him when being aroused and satisfied? How do the sensations compare to the penis? Are they totally different?

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My BF LOVES to have his balls licked. I mean, during a BJ he'll order me to lick or suck his balls. I can just stay down there for 5 minutes and he sometimes won't be anxious for me to get back to sucking his penis.
And he loves for me to fondle his balls when we're (intercoursing). When I'm on top or getting it from behind I'll reach back and play with his balls when he's ready to come and he loves it. Or if I forget when he's ready to cum he'll tell me to play with his balls.
I don't NEED to play with his balls to satisfy ME, but I like doing it because it satisfies him.
It's always a good way to tease because it feels really good, but doesn't really take him any closer to coming. So it gets him hotter and hotter but doesn't satisfy him. So sometimes when I tie him up I'll lick or suck his balls (or just his sack which I think has all the nerve endings) for a really long time. I know it feels good but he'll beg me to return to his penis. I love teasing him that way.
I also think that sucking his balls alot tends to make him come more (meaning have more cum when he does shoot his load).
Well, again, there are differences between us all. You might find that you enjoy doing it, and you'll WANT to do it. It can also be different with different men....probably depending on their reaction to it.
We women have it ingrained in us to want to "please" a man. It's only in the last 40-50 years that most women have figured out that they're supposed to be "pleased", too. There is something fulfilling about pleasing your partner......if you're in the relationship for the right reasons. You might even find yourself doing things that you never imagined you would do......just because you KNOW he loves it. It's called compromising. And then one day, you realize that YOU love doing it too.
As an example, I've given oral sex for many years....thru several relationships. I liked doing it, because I knew THEY loved having it done, but it really did nothing for ME. A few years ago, all of a sudden I realized that not only do I "like" doing it......I LOVE doing it. I feel cheated if I don't GET to do it. It DOES do something for me now!
As I said in my earlier post......there are no manuals with specifics.....because there is nothing that every man likes, or every woman likes. And in different relationships, you find you like different things. It's good to know the basics, but you can only fine tune those basics when you're IN a relationship, and you have someone to try different things with. Yor time will come.....and you'll get to satisfy your curiousity first hand!
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