Extension to shaving question...

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Extension to shaving question...
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Mon, 07-07-2008 - 9:29pm
OK, so you all know that I'm new at the sex thing lol...well, the other night I gave him some oral action for only the 2nd time ever. I think that the first time, I was really anxious and didn't notice, but this time I noticed...he has quite a bit of pubic hair and it was sort of "getting in the way". I could feel it in my mouth and it sort of took away from things. How on earth do I approach him and tell him that I think it would be neat to try things "bare"? I know that's a HUGE personal issue, for both guys and girls, and that I certainly can't dictate what he does....but it sure would be nice. How should I diplomatically approach the fact that I'd like him clean? Thanks.
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Mon, 07-07-2008 - 9:41pm

You could ask him if he's ever thought about shaving.

I've managed to get my DH to trim a bit a few times, but if I mention going bare, he nearly runs the other way, LOL.



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Tue, 07-08-2008 - 1:55am

It was an old g/f that got me trimming. She just asked if I'd ever thought of it, and that she'd prefer fewer stray hairs in her mouth when giving me oral. It didn't seem to be an unreasonable request to me, she was very well trimmed herself. She did it for me the first time but now I shave the base of the shaft, the boys and trim the rest so things are not completely bald. I kinda feel that bald isn't an attractive look on a guy.

How about just asking him? He's gonna make the connection between the trimming that you do to yourself and how trimming/shaving might apply equally to him. And there are plenty of guys happy to do it if there's the slightest chance that it might result in MORE fellatio! ;-)




Edited 7/8/2008 1:56 am ET by westridge2001
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Tue, 07-08-2008 - 7:55am
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Tue, 07-08-2008 - 9:21am

LOL, yep -- that's the look!

Do you have a favorite brand that you use for waxing at home?

I was thinking about trying out a new look to surprise him on vacation. In that respect, have you ever tried waxing at home and leaving a landing strip or anything?



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Tue, 07-08-2008 - 2:57pm
I use the Sally Hansen extra strength all over body wax kit.
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Tue, 07-08-2008 - 3:48pm
You know, it's funny you mention c-section scars. I had the bikini cut with mine, but I find that the hair actually helps keep the scar from getting irritated when I sweat and stuff. I wonder what it would like to make a capital "T" there -- sort of like a reversed thong, LOL.


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