External G-spot stimulation?

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Registered: 05-22-2007
External G-spot stimulation?
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Sun, 07-15-2007 - 7:21am

I've had problem getting orgasm during intercourse. Read about external g-spot stimulation on another forum - apparently you can access your g-spot by rubbing somewhere above the pelvis. I've tried but can't seem to find the right spot.

Has anyone succeeded in this? Any tips?

Thanks!

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Sun, 07-15-2007 - 8:39am

If you check Wikipedia, there's a great diagram of where the g-spot is located. Considering the location, there is no access to the g-spot externally. The g-spot is located across from the clitoris; however, the urethra separates the two. The bladder is above the g-spot and would prevent external stimulation as well.



Because of the positioning of the male prostate, external stimulation between the scrotum and the anus is possible for men. While the two (g-spot and prostate) are often compared, they are not located in the same place for their respective sex.



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Sun, 07-15-2007 - 8:46am
After reading the OP's post, I spent a little time Googling external G-spot stimulation, and came across several first hand accounts where women claimed that their partner was able to stimulate their G-spot externally by finding just the right spot between the pubic bone and the bladder. The majority of these accounts were from women in lesbian relationships. Most of these women also indicated that they were unable to stimulate their G-spot externally themselves.

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Sun, 07-15-2007 - 8:54am

Interesting report Steve. After reading the information, did you have an opinion one way or another about the possibility of external stimulation?

Personally, thinking about it, seems more likely that the stimulation is clitoral, since not all of the clitoris is exposed -- and it does sort of wrap around the pelvic bone. I also suppose different people may have greater distance between their urethra and their vagina which might also contribute to the possibility of external stimulation.



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Sun, 07-15-2007 - 9:01am
I don't have an opinion yet about the possibility, lacking any first hand information, but I look forward to experimenting with DW and seeing if this is possible with her anatomy.

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Sun, 07-15-2007 - 9:29am
I have only ever heard of the G-spot as being something that can be stimulated internally.
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Registered: 05-22-2007
Sun, 07-15-2007 - 4:48pm

Well do let me know if you have any luck with your DW! =)

Misty - thanks, the pic was useful. But I'm still trying to find that illusive spot, internally or externally!

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Registered: 02-28-2006
Sun, 07-15-2007 - 4:58pm
*But I'm still trying to find that illusive spot, internally or externally!*

Finding DW's internally is easy. I insert a finger or two, and make a *come hither* motion just above the top of her pubic bone. If you're trying to find yours solo, a G-spot vibe can really help. We have one from Good Vibes called the G-Swirl (it's manufactured by Fun Factory) that DW is madly in love with.

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Sun, 07-15-2007 - 5:46pm
I don't see how you could. But my gf, who is really skinny, sometimes pushes down during i/c approximately where her pubes would be if she had any, which indirectly stimulates exactly that area. It may or may not work on other girls; she's the only one I ever had sex with whose tummy is so flat that you can just make out the bulge of the erection going in and out of her usually. lol but true.