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Extreme wetness
| Fri, 07-07-2006 - 12:08pm |
When my boyfriend and I have sex my vagina gushes with fluid. It doesn't happen every time we have sex, but is happening often enough that now I believe something is wrong with me. I have talked to my gyn and a urologist, but neither can tell me what it is. They seem to think that it's urine, but last night when we were having sex and my boyfriend pulled out, an incredible amount of fluid gushed out of my vagina. I don't have any STDs. My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and this just recently started happening. Has anyone ever experienced this or know what I should do??? Please help. When it happens I have no warning, no control over it and I feel absolutely disgusting afterwards.

It sounds like you are having female ejaculation (FE).
Yes, it's a LOT of fluid and it's odorless.
Tish is right. It is a LOT of fluid, and it is clear and odorless. It's not coming from your vagina, it's not lubrication....which is thick and creamy.
It's NOTHING to be ashamed or embarassed about. It IS a mess, and there's not much you can do about it but protect the bed as best you can.
FE is something that not many women do, and a lot of women wish they could. As one who does, I could easily live without it.....you can't stop it from happening. It comes from your urethra, but it's NOT urine. You can prove that by making sure your bladder is empty.....and it will still gush. As you said, you don't really feel anything, but the warm wet feeling after it's happened.
It comes from your Urethra. That's where your urine comes from! Exactly like a man's ejaculate comes from HIS Urethra. It's located between your clitoris and your vagina. The only thing that comes from your vagina is lubrication, and that has nothing to do with FE.
Show him the web site, and let him read it for himself.