FACE SLAPPING?

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Registered: 06-17-2004
FACE SLAPPING?
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Mon, 07-19-2004 - 11:39am
Well, during sex the guy that I have been seeing for a few years now asked me to slap him on the face! I was somewhat hesitant, but I complied. Then he slapped me back, not too hard. Later I asked him if he is into S&M, and he admitted to being curious about it. Do you think that taking a lot of drugs (Im laughing as I write this!) could make someone sexually deviant? Also, I was telling this story to another one of my friends and he was horrified and told me that my lover is highly disturbed and a weirdo! What do you guys think?
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Registered: 01-30-2004
In reply to: miami_l
Mon, 07-19-2004 - 11:48am
That is wierd. I'd proceed with caution. The only face slapping I've ever done is to myself ... it seems to feel good for the guy if you slap your face fairly hard with his erect penis when giving him oral, tingles the nerve endings or something. But other than that I can't imagine such a thing ... seems to me it could lead directly to a fairly dangerous situation.
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Registered: 05-18-2004
In reply to: miami_l
Mon, 07-19-2004 - 11:49am
It may be strange, but isn't disturbed. You say he didn't hurt you, right? It sounds like he likes play, but doesn't want to really hurt you. If you both like it, go for it. And no, taking drugs has nothing to do with his sexual desires. Well, maybe unless he was on extacy at the time.

Leticia

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Registered: 06-17-2004
In reply to: miami_l
Mon, 07-19-2004 - 12:12pm
Thanks guys for replying!

Well I think that being on a lot of drugs and not being able to ejaculate easily might have influenced this....he usually isnt so kinky.

No, Im not afraid of him hurting me, its not that. But I wonder, does he want a dominant female to whip his ass in bed? LOL
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Registered: 04-13-2004
In reply to: miami_l
Mon, 07-19-2004 - 12:46pm
I wouldn't go as far to say he is "highly disturbed and a weirdo". I've never had my face slapped during sex. But my hubby likes to slap my butt and my breasts during rough sex. If you like him (and having sex with him), why not ask him to slap your butt instead of your face. I know, for us, my hubby wouldn't want to leave any marks on my face whatsoever.
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Registered: 05-27-2004
In reply to: miami_l
Mon, 07-19-2004 - 4:01pm
I think you're right, he wants to explore S&M. Some people might think it's weird and/or dangerous, but that's THEIR opinion. Whatever two "consenting adults" do in the privacy of their own bedroom is NOT weird, dangerous, immoral, or anything else.

The real question is whether or not you want to "explore" it with him. It's your decision, not his.

Hey, it's not as "sick" (or sickening) as a Dirty Sanchez!

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Registered: 04-13-2004
In reply to: miami_l
Mon, 07-19-2004 - 4:09pm
Maybe he wants to whip yours? ;)