Facial Expressions/Oral
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Facial Expressions/Oral
| Fri, 10-14-2005 - 9:55am |
Me and My FWB get together 1 time a week. He was a virgin when we first hooked up. We have been FWB for a few months now. I never wanted anyone to watch my facial expression during foreplay or sex. But, with him he gets off on watching the way I react to his touching me in all the right places. I get a rush out of him watching me. He will do ANYTHING to make me satisfied including oral. I want to return the favor and give him oral. ANY SUGGESTIONS this will be my FIRST time with oral?

Have you ever seen the bumper sticker "Just Do It"?
There are no rules and regulations, except don't hurt him. This is a FWB situation, not the romance of the century. It's the ideal situation to learn new things. He was a virgin,and he's learning. You're an "oral" virgin, so you can learn too.
Giving oral is about attitude. You do it because you enjoy it, and you enjoy pleasuring him. Use your hand, use your tongue, and treat it like a popsicle. You hold it in your hand, and you lick it, and you suck gently on it.
You also have to ask him if he likes this, and he likes that. Even if you've been doing it for years, every new partner is different, and you have to ask. Some men like it faster, some like it slower. Some like it squeezed tight, some don't. Just experiment, and ask him how it feels.
Also, don't expect him to finish that way, at least in the beginning. It's new to him, too, and some guys just can't do it that way. If it's taking a long time, and you're getting tired, then STOP. He or you can finish him by hand, or with intercourse. If he doesn't finish, it has nothing to do with you or what you're doing or not doing. It's just him. You don't control his climax and ejaculation any more than he controls your orgasms.
Bottom line, enjoy it, and he will too.
Hey howcome!
Here's an old message board that targeted oral sex. Alllllllllll kinds of tips in there for you to learn from:
http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-wcoralsextip
Also, here's a specialty site on the subject:
http://members.tripod.com/midniterambler2002-ivil/goingdownfurther/index.html
Best advice I gave Mrs. Para was to treat me (down there) like a popsicle. Instead of her trying to apply every head bopping or moaning or whatever trick in the book, she instead just slooooowly enjoys it HER way, whether there are flavored aids or no. Each guy is different of course, so your best tactic will be to kill any nervousness from the start and let him know this is your first time and just enjoy learning from there. Yep, you'll likely benefit from him guiding you and it hinge on how well he can communicate what he likes to you and certainly how well you can receive his advice too.
Hope the replies can help you.
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