Facials?!?!?
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| Fri, 04-13-2007 - 6:13pm |
This guy I've been seeing for a few weeks, he's really into a thing I've read about here, that being facials. Is this normal? I mean he did it on our first date, i wasn't ready for vaginal sex but we did oral and with me laying on the bed he kind of knelt over my head and came all over my face and neck ... quite intentionally! But then later even when we'd started having sex he would do it. Maybe 10% of the time he cums inside me, otherwise it's another facial ...
He even asked me a few times to put on my sunglasses and came on them -- I couldn't think of any particular reason to say no. But it's not that intimate, he usually masturbates for a couple of minutes dipping it into my mouth when he needs more saliva, then holds it several inches away and just lets fly. He is so so so nice to me after even though it feels a little wierd with cum in your hair and all over your face but that's how things generally end up. Is this normal? He's certainly a keeper of a bf, a really really nice smart guy who delights me albeit pretty rough in bed, especially compared to my ex.
Last night he did this exact thing again, he was holding it far away and sperm ended up on everything. And that was my guestroom lol. Anyhow, all I want to know is does this mean he is a pervert or abnormal or something. It doesn't bother me, I wouldn't say his taste is very strong, and if this is a normal thing, I'll breathe a sign of relief because I am developing feelings for this guy and i love having sex with him.

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Here's a brief definition from Wikipedia:
BDSM is any of a number of related patterns of human sexual behavior. The major subgroupings are described in the abbreviation "BDSM" itself:
* Bondage & discipline (B&D)
* Domination & submission (D&S)
* Sadism and masochism (or sadomasochism) (S&M)
Neither the act of letting him give you facials nor the practice of BDSM are bad things. From what you have described it seems as if some aspects of your relationship fall into the D&S category (him giving you facials, him having you dress a certain way, and him challenging you).
"...the whole thing doesn't bother me a bit, I was just asking if somehow this was a sign that something wasn't quite right with him."
His acts can be perceived as him being dominant, your comments can lead one to perceive you are submissive. Neither of which are necessarily bad things. It's up to the two of you to determine the boundaries of your relationship. It seems as if you are fine with your relationship the way it is, which makes anything that the two of mutually agree on "normal" within your relationship.
I have a very normal guy who loves facials as well. For him I know its nothing to show dominence or anything like that, he just likes when he is straddling my face and I am sucking on the underside of his penis. A facial is the by product, although he does say it is a huge true on to see cum on "my beautiful face" Typically its probably, 25% facials, and 50% internal. and 25% somewhere else, ass, between my breasts or on my stomuch.
Its not even that he wants to cum on my face, he just wants me to finish him with my mouth an hand, altunately sucking and jerking without worrying up getting cum somewhere. He says that shows my willingness to please him and makes him feel special. So that's what I do, alturnately sucking and jerking. I must admit I'm good enough to "alturnate" so that the big spurts get in my mouth and then the smaller ones on my cheek, so its not a huge facial, but sometimes, when I really just want to drive him wild I just jerk the whole load on my face, and he really loves it. Hey its the least I can do, because he regularly makes me explode on his face in the 69 position, and I soak his face and neck with my juices, so what's the difference.
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