Facials

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Facials
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Fri, 06-03-2005 - 1:50pm

After seeing discussions of facials for months on this board, I had always said that would not be my thing. Now I have a lover who practically always cums that way and it's better and much more of a turn-on than I thought. I don't there's any "controlling" aspect to it at all with this guy, he's just like, "that's hot!" So be it. Amazingly I haven't yet gotten any in my eye despite a couple dozen of these -- hair, forehead, up nose, on tongue, etc. but not in an eye thank God. I have read over and over from you guys that it is not going to feel good so I close my eyes, open my mouth, stick out my tongue and he goes for it!

It brings up a really interesting emotion in me and I can't put my finger on it but you aren't going to forget the first guy that does this to you unless it's somehow abusive or bad.

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In reply to: iphillippa
Fri, 06-03-2005 - 3:58pm

Good to hear you would not forget your first time.....
The first time I released onto a woman's face was accidental anyway, I was aiming for her boobs and the first squirt landed across her face :-)
apart from the surprise whe was cool with it, and I think enjoyed it. Maybe her husband is keeping her face well moisturized these days...

My wife is not so much into being squirted on, mainly becuase she doesn't like getting cum in her hair. she has taken very messy blow jobs from me though, that's not a problem...

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In reply to: iphillippa
Fri, 06-03-2005 - 4:08pm

Mmm, the hair's not an issue compared to how much it turns him on. I mean really that's the whole thing -- it drives him crazy. I did go to the gym afterward once and when i ran my hand through my hair i realized there was a ton of "him" still in it -- i guess depending on the color of one's hair this could be really obvious.

Question: what's with the messy blow jobs thing? This guy wants tons and tons of saliva. It's fine with me, but most guys seem to want as little as possible so their's no fuss, no muss.

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In reply to: iphillippa
Fri, 06-03-2005 - 4:10pm
... plus, that's the point, there's nothing accidental about it: he intends to do exactly this, he's not just trying to get it in my mouth and missing. I mean that's what was so wierd and shocking to begin with but it's fine now.
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Registered: 06-03-2005
In reply to: iphillippa
Fri, 06-03-2005 - 4:24pm
Lots of saliva is great, though if it doen't happen thats OK...By messy I mmean that I sometimes hold just the tip of my penis in her mouth, and let a lot of the fluid will go on her nose, chin and cheeks...
Also rather than swallow she tends to let a lot of the semen spill out the sides of her mouth as she fills up... she can look quite a mess by the time I am finished with her...
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In reply to: iphillippa
Fri, 06-03-2005 - 4:32pm

i have noticed that too... every woman who's face I have come on has been surprised when the hot fluid lands on their faces, whether they were expecting it or not, though in some cases the probably found that the quantity was more than they had bargained for :-)
one woman in particular got thoroughly creamed....i was almost embarassed...

do you find that more or less fluid is better?

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In reply to: iphillippa
Fri, 06-03-2005 - 4:36pm
I wouldn't say I really notice, except afterwards sometimes it is all over the place.
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In reply to: iphillippa
Fri, 06-03-2005 - 4:39pm

During masturbation or oral. I have done it for him during oral and manual, and god knows it's happened plenty by accident, but he will not simply out and outright do it TO ME--even if I beg for it. ;-)




Edited 6/3/2005 5:48 pm ET ET by rain_dancer_iam
Imagination is more important than knowledge." (Albert Einstein )
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In reply to: iphillippa
Fri, 06-03-2005 - 5:08pm

DH and I don't have any issues with masturbating in front of each other. He just happens to find facials both degrading and exciting at the same time. He can't seem to come to grips with it. I'm fine with whatever he wants because it's not as though it turns me on or anything. It's not my fantasy, it's his.




Edited 6/3/2005 6:01 pm ET ET by rain_dancer_iam
Imagination is more important than knowledge." (Albert Einstein )
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In reply to: iphillippa
Fri, 06-03-2005 - 5:36pm
BTW, I wanted to ask a guy: is this related to porno movies, as many posters on here have said? I ask because I would guess this guy have never watched a single one. He just likes to give facials -- there's no more to it than that.
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In reply to: iphillippa
Fri, 06-03-2005 - 5:54pm

I'm sure that porn was a factor for some men and not others. Word of mouth, erotic writing, imagination and fantasy play a role as well. My DH has never asked or mentioned this act in almost 30 yrs. together. I asked him if he had heard of it but he felt it was degrading to do to, particularly to someone you love.

Porn has clearly had an effect on the popularity of many acts though.




Edited 6/3/2005 5:56 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001