Facials

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Registered: 11-22-2004
Facials
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Fri, 06-03-2005 - 1:50pm

After seeing discussions of facials for months on this board, I had always said that would not be my thing. Now I have a lover who practically always cums that way and it's better and much more of a turn-on than I thought. I don't there's any "controlling" aspect to it at all with this guy, he's just like, "that's hot!" So be it. Amazingly I haven't yet gotten any in my eye despite a couple dozen of these -- hair, forehead, up nose, on tongue, etc. but not in an eye thank God. I have read over and over from you guys that it is not going to feel good so I close my eyes, open my mouth, stick out my tongue and he goes for it!

It brings up a really interesting emotion in me and I can't put my finger on it but you aren't going to forget the first guy that does this to you unless it's somehow abusive or bad.

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Registered: 05-07-2003
In reply to: iphillippa
Mon, 06-06-2005 - 10:03am
You have to remember that guys are visual. I'm guessing most (like myself) like seeing things during sex. I love watching myself going in and out of my wife, can't get enough of it. Conversly, I love seeing my cum on my wifes face. For me it makes me feel closer to her as she has total trust and love for me to let me do that.
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Registered: 03-13-2005
In reply to: iphillippa
Tue, 06-07-2005 - 6:51pm
I am in two FWB relationships right now and a little unusually they have both lasted just fine for several months. I do facials almost all the time with both of them and they love it. What's interesting to me is that the shyer, more demure of the two is more vocal about wanting me to do it, and the more raging sexy one is less so but they both seem to love it; we've done it dozens of times and each of them tells me that no one else has ever done it to them before. One of them has gotten a lot in the eyes and I know that doesn't feel so great and the bloodshot eye the next AM is a dead giveaway. It's just such an intense moment -- it's so sexy it's almost hard to watch -- one of these women looks right at me smiling with her mouth waaaay open when i do it and it's pretty heartstopping. I guess you'd have to be a guy to see why this is so amazing.
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Registered: 06-08-2005
In reply to: iphillippa
Wed, 06-08-2005 - 1:44pm

Hello all, long time lurker first time poster.

Even as a friend of porno I'd always thought the facial was a weird gratuitous graceless feature--until I accidently laid down a facial of my own.

A friend of mine's girl friend (Platonic) visited our apartment a year after college. She was a few years older (also making her oldest girl I'd hooked up with), and, basically, she ended up moving from the couch to my room on the first night. She stayed for three days longer than she'd intended, because, I think, on the first night I was having a little trouble climaxing, and we spent a sleepless night going back into eachother. By morning, after I'd showered and put my suit on, I was aching and feeling almost hungover. I was about to go, kissed her; she was sitting on the edge of the bed and I was standing in front of her. She reached into my fly, began to stroke and fellate me, determined to get me off, and using two hands and a lot of saliva and a lot of pumping and concentrating, I went off all over her face and hair. She goes "You got it all over my face!" But if this was a comic book there would have been hearts around the speech bubble. For the rest of the day she called me every couple hours, asking when I was coming home. It sort of didn't register with me, for some reason. I was still sort of unsure about her and didn't understand her reaction; I barley new her obviously. That night though, as we were having sex and I was about to climax, she bounced away from me and knelt in front me with her mouth open and tongue out, smiling and eyes wide. This time I used my hands to give her another facial. She was smiling and sputtering a few seconds later. We did this a dozen times over the next couple days. My god. I've never had another girl who wanted me to do it to her and have been embarrased to ask (I generally find myself with women's studies majors who might like it, but if they didn't they'd lose there minds at me, I'm certain), but to this day I think it's one of hottest things that's ever happened to me. It's just like all-out erotic, like "I want you so much I just want you to come all over me, I'm completely open for you." Pretty freaking sweet.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: iphillippa
Wed, 06-08-2005 - 2:07pm
Hmmm...well, I've asked MY guy if it's a fantasy for him and he says no...he doesn't get it. So, this obviously isn't universally true for all men. Nothing is though.
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Registered: 06-17-2003
In reply to: iphillippa
Wed, 06-08-2005 - 2:09pm
I know what you mean. I was surprised by how much splattered on me the first time. I was expecting only a couple of drops but he kept cumming. Now I know there will be a lot of it. I didn't enjoy it at first but now I like it. I don't know why I like it but I always giggle while it happens. We do it only once or twice a month.

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