Facials?

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Registered: 04-13-2005
Facials?
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Wed, 04-13-2005 - 3:45am
Hi, I'm new to the board and thought I'd post a quick poll! Do you like getting a "facial"? ;-) Does it turn you on, or do you find it disgusting or degrading?

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Registered: 12-05-2004
In reply to: hislove03
Wed, 04-13-2005 - 4:37am
degrading...anywhere but there.
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-23-2004
In reply to: hislove03
Wed, 04-13-2005 - 8:17am
Neither, they don't turn me on but I don't find them disgusting or degrading either.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: hislove03
Wed, 04-13-2005 - 10:24am

Never had one but the thought is not a turn on for me, nor for my DH.

I find the idea degrading.

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Registered: 04-13-2005
In reply to: hislove03
Wed, 04-13-2005 - 11:16am

That is almost what I expected - I knew I was weird!! They are a huge turn on for my man and me...it took a bit of persuading but since I made him do it for the first time, he loves it...He makes sure by the way he treats me in our relationship, that I would never feel "degraded" or "used". He is the most loving and respectful man on earth :-).

I also love it when he cums on my chest...so erotic!!

Why do you find it degrading?? I think it is a very intimate act, something you wouldn't do with just "anyone", but, I can't really see how it is degrading.

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Registered: 09-25-2004
In reply to: hislove03
Wed, 04-13-2005 - 11:19am
I'm always willing to try something once. I haven't let him give me a facial because I'm afraid it'll go into my mouth and I don't like the way cum tastes..I don't always have a can of Dr. Pepper around for accidental swallowing..One day, before the baby, I will let him give me a facial
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Registered: 05-01-2003
In reply to: hislove03
Wed, 04-13-2005 - 12:20pm
The first facial I ever had was accidental. I was pregnant and oral and HJs were just about the only way I was capable of satisfying my ex. Well, you can guess what happened! At the time I was not impressed by this method of having sex at all and got quite bitchy with him. In recent years I have had it happen several times in a more or less planned manner. Still can't say that it really does a lot for me, I don't jump up and down and long for it. It seems to be a real thrill for certain males, which only compounds my inability to grasp the massive mystery that male arousal is. Elaine
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: hislove03
Wed, 04-13-2005 - 12:55pm

Well, everybody's different though. So, you're not weird, just different.

Frankly, I would rather have my DH's ejaculate INSIDE me than stinging my eyes and dripping off my nose. LOL!

My DH wouldn't get anything out of having MY bodily fluids shot into his face either and for us, if it's not something we both enjoy, we don't do it.

Facials are just a little too close to spitting in the face for me. Any bodily fluid purposely aimed at my face is beyond my personal boundaries.

But there is no right or wrong when it comes to sex within a relationship, just what works for the individuals involved. IF you both enjoy facials, then enjoy.

And welcome to the board!




Edited 4/13/2005 1:04 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001
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Registered: 12-21-2004
In reply to: hislove03
Wed, 04-13-2005 - 5:40pm
My bf and me have done it twice. It really doesn't bother me at all.
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Registered: 09-15-2003
In reply to: hislove03
Wed, 04-13-2005 - 8:11pm
No, I don not like getting a "facial." I think that it is extremely degrading. He may finish anywhere else inside or outside of me, but not on my face. It happened once on accident, and his semen got in my eye. Let me tell you, that is extremely painful and made my eye practically swell shut. So this is not something I want repeated lol. If it is something that you and your partner enjoy and there is complete respect in the relationship, good for you, it's just not for me.
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Registered: 08-04-2004
In reply to: hislove03
Thu, 04-14-2005 - 8:14am

You are not weird.

I don't understand why some people here find it degrading. It is not degrading in itself.
I might or might not like it but it does not make it disgusting and I would never tell anyone who enjoys it that it is disgusting or degrading. Nobody here is in a position to give derogatory adjectives about sexual acts. I find it extremely disrespectful.
It is up to everyone to determine how they feel about it, but it is not correct to call a sexual act by itself degrading just because they don't like it. Otherwise we are implying that "hislove03" has no respect for herself.

hislove03, do not consider yourself weird. You are just normal and you should enjoy your sexuality. Nobody here should pass judgement about preferences, so please don't take their opinion seriously. And I find facials a really turn on, I haven't done yet it but I might try it. :-)

iliana

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