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| Wed, 04-13-2005 - 3:45am |
Hi, I'm new to the board and thought I'd post a quick poll! Do you like getting a "facial"? ;-) Does it turn you on, or do you find it disgusting or degrading?

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Hi Iliana,
thank you for your comment! I don't feel offended if people say they find it degrading though. I just honestly don't understand it. My guy was pretty surprised when I suggested it, and he told me that the women he's been with so far, would never have considered it because they find it disresapectful. He asked about a dozen times "Are you sure? You know that I love you, don't you?" (It was quite sweet!!)
To me it's a big turn on. He's started to like it a lot too!
Whoa! I think you're jumping to a VERY unnecessary defense there, aren't you? I think you need to actually READ the responses before jumping to conclusions.
The OP ASKED whether we thought the act was degrading and if so, why. That question implies that there will be differing opinions or she would have assumed otherwise.
EVERY opinion on this board is equal. Mine, yours and everyone else's. If my opinion is that it's a degrading act, that's a valid opinion...FOR ME. And just because you don't understand or agree with it, doesn't make it less valid either.
I'm not, nor did I in my response, pass judgement on anyone who chooses to engage in the act and I resent the insinuation that I, or anyone else who responded, did.
That's just not the case.
Edited 4/14/2005 12:16 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001
Well, I LOVE THEM!!!!
There is really no mystery to this. Men, and males of all races and species, still feel (sometimes unconsciously) that sex involves a "conquest" of some kind.
Therefore, anything that shows the complete submission by the female, whether out of love (which is the best reason) or just to stoke the male ego (sometimes very important) make him feel "victorius" .
If you care about the person more than the act, nothing that is not painful or unhealthy should be off limits. It used to be oral or anal sex and now it is facials.
On the other hand, he should also be willing to let you "sit on his face" if that is what give you pleasure.
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