Facials?

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-13-2005
Facials?
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Wed, 04-13-2005 - 3:45am
Hi, I'm new to the board and thought I'd post a quick poll! Do you like getting a "facial"? ;-) Does it turn you on, or do you find it disgusting or degrading?

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iVillage Member
Registered: 04-23-2004
In reply to: hislove03
Thu, 04-14-2005 - 8:36am

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iVillage Member
Registered: 04-13-2005
In reply to: hislove03
Thu, 04-14-2005 - 10:01am

Hi Iliana,

thank you for your comment! I don't feel offended if people say they find it degrading though. I just honestly don't understand it. My guy was pretty surprised when I suggested it, and he told me that the women he's been with so far, would never have considered it because they find it disresapectful. He asked about a dozen times "Are you sure? You know that I love you, don't you?" (It was quite sweet!!)

To me it's a big turn on. He's started to like it a lot too!

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: hislove03
Thu, 04-14-2005 - 10:24am

Whoa! I think you're jumping to a VERY unnecessary defense there, aren't you? I think you need to actually READ the responses before jumping to conclusions.

The OP ASKED whether we thought the act was degrading and if so, why. That question implies that there will be differing opinions or she would have assumed otherwise.

EVERY opinion on this board is equal. Mine, yours and everyone else's. If my opinion is that it's a degrading act, that's a valid opinion...FOR ME. And just because you don't understand or agree with it, doesn't make it less valid either.

I'm not, nor did I in my response, pass judgement on anyone who chooses to engage in the act and I resent the insinuation that I, or anyone else who responded, did.

That's just not the case.




Edited 4/14/2005 12:16 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001
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Registered: 03-22-2005
In reply to: hislove03
Thu, 04-14-2005 - 1:44pm
I find it a waste as I love to swallow cum finding it a turn on.
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Registered: 07-20-2004
In reply to: hislove03
Thu, 04-14-2005 - 2:27pm
I find it exciting to cum on near my DW breasts, belly, back, pelvis, legs, hands. Im pretty sure she would not like it in the face so I dont ask or try. If she liked it or asked, Id oblige. :)
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-26-2004
In reply to: hislove03
Thu, 04-14-2005 - 5:23pm

Well, I LOVE THEM!!!!

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-23-2005
In reply to: hislove03
Sun, 04-24-2005 - 6:44pm
I don't understand what it is about guys and coming on your face. My SO asks me about this every now and then and I say no. I don't mind him coming on my breasts after a bj, or on my belly or back if he wants to masterbate, but anything above the neck is a definite no-no.
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-25-2005
In reply to: hislove03
Thu, 04-28-2005 - 9:03pm

There is really no mystery to this. Men, and males of all races and species, still feel (sometimes unconsciously) that sex involves a "conquest" of some kind.

Therefore, anything that shows the complete submission by the female, whether out of love (which is the best reason) or just to stoke the male ego (sometimes very important) make him feel "victorius" .

If you care about the person more than the act, nothing that is not painful or unhealthy should be off limits. It used to be oral or anal sex and now it is facials.

On the other hand, he should also be willing to let you "sit on his face" if that is what give you pleasure.

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