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| Tue, 04-19-2005 - 12:52am |
I love my boyfriend very much and enjoy our sexlife, but I frequently fantasize about having sex with women. I do not want a "relationship" with another woman, but often wish I could have sex with an attractive woman. I guess a woman knows what a woman likes. Is this normal?

It's normal for you and many other women who find the same sex sexually attractive. Fantasies, in and of themselves, are generally harmless unless they become obsessive or interfere with your primary relationship.
I CAN admire other women for their beauty and sensuality but I've never fantasized about or desired them sexually.
Sometimes, I wonder if what women really are desiring, rather than a female lover, is the same sensuality, nurturing gentleness and the other qualities women typically possess, from their male partners.
Edited 4/19/2005 1:56 am ET ET by katmandoo2001