Fantasy???...

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Fantasy???...
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Tue, 06-08-2004 - 3:45pm
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Edited 6/9/2004 7:39 am ET ET by travel3789

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Registered: 10-09-2003
In reply to: travel3789
Tue, 06-08-2004 - 6:22pm
I believe that the boards are segregated into topics for a reason, so that like minded people will congregate. That's why there's a "Taboo" board, and a "My Affair Board" and the likes of them. This board is called "Let's talk about SEX." So, it only makes sense, that you're bound to have a wide-variety of people who are comprised of different sexual styles. It's a non-specific board.

I've seen posters or CL's who will warn when a post contains TOS violations, but that certainly doesn't make anyone prudish. I see now from your second post, that that wasn't to what you were referring. In any event, whenever opinions are stated, there's bound to be someone who may feel judged...just as your opinion has shown.



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Registered: 04-13-2004
In reply to: travel3789
Tue, 06-08-2004 - 6:28pm
ROFL. THIS is exactly what I mean. Your post to me is so analyzing and superior. You don't need to explain anything to me. I understand the boards. My post wasn't to you in the first place, lol. I feel far more comfortable posting on the other sex boards where I am free to speak my mind and of my experiences. Compared to those boards, this board is very clinical and anything out of the ordinary is deemed "not very normal" in others' opinions, lol. Just giving a little "heads up" to the other poster, that's all. No need to get uptight! lol.
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Registered: 10-09-2003
In reply to: travel3789
Tue, 06-08-2004 - 6:36pm
I'm not uptight, Tiana, really.

The rule of sex is that there is no such thing as "normal." And that includes those who engage in five minutes of missionary sex all way through to those who enjoy scat and S&M. If two people are agreeable to it, then it's normal for them. You are as free as anyone here to speak about your sex life, and I see that you've been doing just that. Sorry, if you feel that it's too clinical for you, but as I said, it's a non-specific board...is there a "clinical" or "prudish" board? ;-)

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Registered: 04-13-2004
In reply to: travel3789
Tue, 06-08-2004 - 6:37pm
Talk away, this is your discussion, not mine.
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Registered: 05-27-2004
In reply to: travel3789
Wed, 06-09-2004 - 12:08am
How about getting away from the computer, and going out into REAL life, where you can meet a REAL lady, and have a REAL relationship. That sounds a LOT more exciting and erotic than cybersex, any day!

Or, is there already a real lady in your life that wouldn't approve of that? If so, she probably wouldn't approve of the cybersex, either, since most people consider that "cheating".

Fantasies are MUCH better when left as a fantasy, and as such, they're not wrong/perverted. Very often, when you act them out, they're nowhere near what you thought they would be.

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Registered: 04-08-2004
In reply to: travel3789
Wed, 06-09-2004 - 10:52am
Hey Free, Tiana, and everyone else who reads this. I am glad to be back online, with permission. LOL I had to make a comment here though. I tend to lean a little more towards Tiana's view here, but I also agree with Free. This is a board about sex, in general, but the people who generally congragate as free put it on this board, do seem to be much more prudish, than those who go to the Taboo board, or the other boards on this site. I know there are many of you who travel around sort of say to the other boards, and are regulars there too, but the fact remains. This board seems to take sex a lot more seriously than some of the others. And in that I mean I have seen people hammered for there sex lives on this board, where as everyone seems a lot more accepting on some of the others. So, I think you both have valid points, and I think you both have very valid opinions. Tiana, I do believe that most of your posts probably belong on the taboo site, since it verges on the D/S lifestyle. But that is only my opinion from what I have read so far. Free, You tend to be a very open minded person on somethings, but then others, WOW, watchout, the hammer is coming hard and fast. LOL I am the same way though, so I really cannot talk to much here. I do however try and respect the OP as much as I can on there opinions, and leave them at that, unless they are the type that post, hoping to only hear the things they want to hear, and argueing all others. Then, watch out. It is hammertime!!! LOL I never did get to see this OP's fantasy, and none of the other posters were specific enough. Plus, all of the OP's messages were edited out, so I have no Idea what this thread was about. I just thought I would comment on the small talk going on. LOL
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Registered: 05-18-2004
In reply to: travel3789
Wed, 06-09-2004 - 12:01pm
I did read your post before you removed it, didn't get time to respond until now. I think that's a very normal fantasy, although one I hadn't had. I had one kinda similar when I was a virgin, I wanted to meet some hot stranger and lose my virginity to him. I think my draw to that was that I wanted to be as free sexually as I wanted to be and felt I could with someone who didn't really know me, especially if I never saw him again. Who cares if he would ahve thought I was freaky? LOL. I did lose my virginity to who was to become my husband. I think your fantasy sounds exciting, I would just say to be careful should you think about acting it out. That can be dangerous nowadays.

Leticia

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