feces during sex? HELP!

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Registered: 07-18-2005
feces during sex? HELP!
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Thu, 08-17-2006 - 11:39am

Hey guys,

I have kind of a BAD situation going on here. Twice now I've had sex with my boyfriend (vaginal contact, not anal - this is important to note for this post) I have had poop dribble out of me. We were using lube at the time and this time I had a bowel movement about 2 hours earlier. Noticed that it was coming out during sex, and went to the washroom and it looked like diarrhea was smeared between my cheeks. I did not have diarrhea that day or any day near to this one.
This was a mortifying situation I'd like not to repeat for obvious reasons. My boyfriend was very understanding about it, didn't care, in fact comforted me and told me it was no big deal... while I died inside.
What is causing this to happen? Is this at all normal? Am I some kind of superhuman fecal fountain? In all seriousness though... I need serious help.
Thanks.

p.s. my apologies if you barfed during this post. But then again, thats the chance you take when reading a message board about sex ;)

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 08-17-2006 - 12:08pm

It's possible that this was an allergic reaction to the lube you were using, not likely but possible OR a stress reaction. Many people get diarrhea when they get stressed.

It's only been 2 experiences, so hopefully, time and familiarity will take care of the situation for you.

If it doesn't though, talk with your dr.

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Registered: 07-18-2005
Thu, 08-17-2006 - 4:03pm

I would rule out an allergic reaction because we've used this lube many times with no problems.

Also, I would have to rule out stress as well, because I don't feel stressed during sex, just the tension that comes before the orgasm and the occasional feeling of needing to pee (from him getting to my g spot)...

I should have pointed out that also:
1) i'm on birth control
2) we were using a condom

--- not sure if those two points make a bit of a difference at all though ---

I'm not certain it WAS diarrhea, it just looked like it... the viscosity I mean. Is it possible the lube kind of backwashed into my anus and came back out with residue? The weird thing is, we couldn't even smell it because all we both could smell was latex and lube.

If any of the moderators read this, could you provide me some online sources which I could read that might help me understand this better? You guys always provide really useful links. Thanks!

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 08-17-2006 - 5:10pm

I guess it could have been the lube dripping back into your rectal area, but I would think it would have to go INTO your rectum to get any feces mixed with it to darken it. At least, I would hope so. LOL!

I would still say that since it's happened twice now that you might want to talk with your dr. about it.




Edited 8/17/2006 5:12 pm ET by katmandoo2001