Feedback during sex?
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Feedback during sex?
| Fri, 03-25-2005 - 4:12pm |
A general question for all...
I am pretty "vocal" during love making / sex, particularly when I am getting oral sex, and I REALLY like my partner / wife to give me "feedback" when I am giving. (Lets face it, if your not hitting the right "spots", he /she may not be getting all they could out of the experience, in my opinion).
My question being, do you like to be "guided" when giving, or do you prefer just to do your own thing? I have heard some people get "resentful" when they are "told" what to do and how to do it. But, an inch or two in one direction or another or a certain angle can be the difference between "nice" and "screaming orgasm".
Your thoughts please...
Owl

Interesting. The most fun we have with sex is knowing each other so well that guiding anymore almost becomes non-existant. Its just so much fun because of that alone.
When we're trying anything different, then guiding is not a problem. For the different numerous activities we normally have fun with though, almost always there are no words needed. We enjoy being that compatible, but have no problem communicating if any problems occur or if experimenting with something different of course.
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