Feeling really sore, owww.

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Registered: 04-13-2007
Feeling really sore, owww.
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Thu, 07-12-2007 - 2:30pm

Do any of you guys who have sex a lot ever get sore? I was with my bf for the last 9 days and today I'm feeling a bit wrecked. Between my legs is quite tender, my throat is really sore, my right eye is bloodshot today from you know what. He is quite well endowed and I am a very small person. I have a ton of work to do and I'm simply crawling through it.

The thing that's ridiculous is, in the heat of passion I will say "harder, harder, harder" partially b/c I know he likes that but partially because it feels good. It feels good but it really hurts too, both at the same time. I will let him go for it hard in my throat too because he *loves* it and at the time it actually feels kinda good for me -- certainly different from anything I've known before. I wouldn't be at all surprised if we've had sex 20-30 times during that period, often with very long blowjobs to warm up. He is in his early 40s but gets full-on erections in seconds most of the time, at any hour of the day or night, and is always wanting more and more. So do I, I guess, I just love it when we're doing it but I'm realllly sore today. I've never been anywhere near this tender just from having sex.

I mean people go on vacations and honeymoons all the time. Even though I am petite as far as I know most vaginas and such are the same size. What do you guys do?

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Registered: 03-08-2004
Thu, 07-12-2007 - 3:42pm

Having sex 30 times in 9 days, common sense will say you'll probably be sore.

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Registered: 10-16-2006
Thu, 07-12-2007 - 5:34pm
When it gets sore, give it a rest! :)
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Registered: 04-13-2007
Thu, 07-12-2007 - 5:50pm
lol sorry I didn't mean to whine, if that's what it seemed like!!! I will watch out for infections as you say but I don't think that will be a problem. Just my throat, it's soooo sore. Way too many overenthusiastic bjs. I don't have much practical experience with this sort of thing -- my ex-husband and I had sex maybe twice a month in our best times -- but now I know.
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Registered: 05-11-2007
Fri, 07-13-2007 - 8:43am

I never in my life got a sore throat from BJs and I can take it to the back of my throat too. Are you sure you aren't coming down with something?

Anyway like the others said, if things get too sore just give it a break. My BF is pretty much only home on the weekends so we go at it every chance we get and we get pretty rough too. I always have brusies when he leaves to go back out on the road LOL. And I mean bruises between my legs too. I am sure if he ever gets a job where he is home every night (he's looking) there will be times when I tell him to just take it easy on me for a couple days! I don't think I would ever say NO I would just say 'not so hard right now!'!

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Registered: 04-13-2007
Fri, 07-13-2007 - 12:15pm
Maybe coming down with something, but I think it's because of how we do it. It's not just taking it down my throat, he is generally in control and thrusts very very hard sometimes ... I believe the vulgar term for it is throatf___ing. It's not a problem while it's happening, it's just I have many times noticed it the next day and if it has been particularly intense it really stings.
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Registered: 05-11-2007
Fri, 07-13-2007 - 1:24pm

Then you should limit how often you let him do that. He does sound rather large ... if you limit how often he gets to do certain things he will appreciate them more when you do let him do them again!

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Registered: 04-13-2007
Fri, 07-13-2007 - 2:11pm

I guess so. It's too bad, the hard throating thing is his crack cocaine -- for whatever reason that's by far his favorite sexual act. He's an awesome guy and is very appreciative and super fun to do this for, but on the other hand when you give him the green light he holds back nothing. Different strokes for different folks.

But I will have to make this less frequent, obviously I don't want to get injured, etc. -- I have read that there are some very sensitive nerves and tissues down there and I'm sure this is pretty brutal to them, at least if done regularly.

Anyhow, I feel better today. Sure am thankful for such a wonderful bf in my life so it's all good.

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Registered: 05-04-2007
Fri, 07-13-2007 - 2:13pm

Make some tea with honey & lemon.

Make sure you tell him how sore you are, maybe you can get a sympathy back rub out of the deal.

Are you ever in charge? Or is it always him?

Good distraction frees us from emotional pain, bad distraction gives you a mouth full of whizz. ~~~ Guru Tugginmypudha
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Registered: 05-13-2007
Fri, 07-13-2007 - 5:27pm

I was kind of wondering the same thing, about whether Size 0 is ever in charge. Size 0, it sounds like you have a fabulous relationship with your bf, but you always mention what you do for him and what gets him off, and how he is a take charge kind of guy.

Is he reciprocating? Are you getting the sexual satisfaction you deserve, after being so supportive of what gets him off?

I hope he is thankful for what you are willing to do for him. Quite honestly, the idea of a penis in my throat scares the heck out of me, and I am not real confident in trying this without getting some tips, or pointers, for success.

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Registered: 05-13-2007
Fri, 07-13-2007 - 5:30pm
Also, I feel like I might be missing something here. What exactly is your right eye all bloodshot from? For some reason I have this image of you getting wacked in the eye with a big stiff penis, but that just seems like too much of a cartoon image.

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