Fellatio to completion

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Fellatio to completion
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Fri, 04-23-2004 - 8:05am
Great recent post Yasmin.

It's seems that a lot of you us perform/receive fellatio as foreplay but not too often to completion since that may decrease or delay intercourse.

I love intercourse with my wife, and I like the closeness of coming inside her. But to me, strictly for pleasure, nothing feels better than having her mouth wrapped around my penis when I come.

So my question is, how often do you maybe start with fellatio, proceed to intercourse, but perhaps return to fellatio for the big finish?

We do this on occassion -- once a month or so. I take a long time to come purely from oral (and her jaw gets sore easily) so we've found this works well. We get to have sex, she doesn't have to perform oral very long (but she likes to do it), and I get to finish orally (which she likes too).

Jeff

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Fri, 04-23-2004 - 11:26am
We do that. It's great to mix it up sometimes and let him have the big "O" orally. And I think he gets off more on the fact that his penis has been inside me and I have no problem taking it in my mouth afterward. He's made reference to my kissing him after he's given me oral "can you taste yourself?" He really likes that.

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Fri, 04-23-2004 - 12:46pm
We do that somewhat regularly. DH really likes it, and so do I.

Leticia

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Fri, 04-23-2004 - 5:25pm
We do this occasionally as well but more typically, I like giving the oral from start to finish. It's special attention for him and a special pleasure with no interruptions.
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Fri, 04-23-2004 - 6:06pm
Never.

CL-Yasmin1967

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Fri, 04-23-2004 - 7:23pm
thats cool yasmin because you have posted that both you and your husband are happy with intercourse...but lets say your man could best cum via oral?....i've read many many times on these boards that a man who refuses to perform cunninlingus (or manual stimulation) to completion on his woman is selfish....especially those women who state they can best orgasm thru oral or fingers...so i wonder how the board would react if a man posted as you did regarding oral or manual sex play on his lady: "Never. Perhaps i'm selfish but once i'm inside her i'm not getting out!".

honey

    

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Fri, 04-23-2004 - 7:29pm
Honey, I think you are missing the point. This is the way *they* prefer it. She didn't say he wants it but she refuses. May I ask why you are trying to twist her words?

Leticia

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Sat, 04-24-2004 - 4:31am

ROTFLMAO


ummm.....yeah....whatever.

CL-Yasmin1967

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Sat, 04-24-2004 - 11:47am
hi Leticia...i wasn't trying to twist yasmins words but rather to play devils advocate and pose the question of how would the board respond if a male made the statement that he was never gonna stop intercourse to please his woman in other ways...i totally understand yasmins contention that she and her husband are very happy with their sexlife!...so i didn't mean this personally towards *her* but rather as an open question to the board regarding *would* some women take offense if a man made a similar comment to yasmins?

honey

    

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Sat, 04-24-2004 - 12:58pm
There's no way to answer that with a statement taken out of context. Would this hypothetical man's wife be dissatisfied with their sex life due to his refusal to please otherwise, or does she agree with his feelings? I need more info on this hypothetical situation.

Leticia

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Sat, 04-24-2004 - 6:04pm


honeynvinegar

But yasmin said it took him so long to orgasm with fellatio that they BOTH much preferred intercourse. They are similar to my DF and I. She could focus solely on fellating me for probably 20+ minutes for me to have an ordinary orgasm, or we could have intercourse for the same amount of time during which she would orgasm repeatly and I could frequently orgasm more than once. Hmmmm...which should we choose? I guess we'll opt for fellatio because it's the PCorrect thing to do.

taoist.

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