Female arousal-anyone else?

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Registered: 11-15-2006
Female arousal-anyone else?
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Thu, 05-03-2007 - 10:25am

Since my libido has taken flying leap this past year and the sex that dh and I have been having has been so incredible I have noticed something increasing which has totally surprised me. I am curious if this is something other women have ever exerienced.

Even after having sex with multiple orgasms, I will fall asleep and wake up a few hours later horney all over again! I can have 3 or more orgams in a session in the morning, be ready for more at night and want more just hours later!! DH says I am like a teenage boy but I am wondering if this is wierd. DH doesn't think so and is perfectly fine with participating when he can or letting me masterbate whenever I need to but I feel a little silly needing to when he satisfies me so much but after a little rest I am ready to go again!I have noticed this to have gotten more extreme since we figured out how to have me have G-spot orgasms. I feel like I am addicted to orgasms. I am not sure I want it to go away either!!



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Registered: 04-20-2007
Thu, 05-03-2007 - 10:31am

If you dont mine me asking how old are you?

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Registered: 11-15-2006
Thu, 05-03-2007 - 10:42am
I am 46 now, this started about 9 months ago and I was 45 then.



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Registered: 04-20-2007
Thu, 05-03-2007 - 10:57am

Hopefully my SO will be that same when she is your age no after she has multi orgasms she is just to tired to do anything else even if I havent came yet.

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Registered: 12-25-2006
Thu, 05-03-2007 - 11:22am

Hey livingproof!

No you're not the only one. Mine started a little earlier - around 40. I think it has everything to do with the G-spot orgasms. They seem to go on forever - doesn't get too sensitive either...so when we're 'finished' I could still go on, but I'm usually a little worn out, so I go to sleep, but if I wake up in the night, I'm raring to go again! I don't know how long this will last, but I'm making the most of it while it does! LOL

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Thu, 05-03-2007 - 11:40am

I've always had a high libido and always had multiple orgasms.

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Thu, 05-03-2007 - 2:00pm

Moon,

How old are you, if you don't mind me asking?
I just have noticed a sexual awakening this past year and I am hoping it to go on and on. Figuring I waited 30 or so years so I deserve to have 30 more to enjoy!



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Thu, 05-03-2007 - 2:12pm
Tha is good to know. I was worried it would all dissapear as quicky as it showed up. I am just not used to feeling like I get turned on as soon as I am satisfied. Coming from someone who just once or twice a week was enough and lucky to orgasm once in a blue moon, this is all so new and FUN.



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Registered: 12-25-2006
Thu, 05-03-2007 - 4:33pm
I don't mind at all...most people already know I hit the big 5-0 this year. But I feel like I'm still in my 20's sexually, if not even hotter than that! I think it's something that is pretty common, but women just aren't talking about it. So this increased libido has been going on for at least 10 years...and I had a hysterectomy 5 years ago. I just don't want it to end!!!











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Registered: 03-31-2007
Thu, 05-03-2007 - 4:42pm

Hi Livingproof,

I have mentioned a couple of times that we should start a group for us 40 something horny women! I first found the boards on iVillage because of the very same *problem* (LOL, not that I like to refer to it as a problem), and have met many other women here that have run into the same thing. Luckily, other members have always been encouraging that it will last!!! I get worried because of some of the stuff that I read about menopausal women, but I plan to ask for hormone pills if this feeling ever goes away ;-)

I also learned to have g-spot orgasms during this past year, but I was having that always horny feeling prior to that, so I'm pretty sure it is brought on by the hormonal changes that coincide with the onset of menopause (which can last for up to 6 years).

I have found that my libido does fluctuates a bit. It was much higher in January than it is now, but it's higher now than it's ever been prior to January. Seems like DH and I are always looking for an opportunity to have sex. Luckily, he's a willing participant, and as you said it's tons of fun. Like you, I find that we can have sex several times a day for very long, satisfying sessions, and I will still masturbate in between. We have both enjoyed that the sex has become more creative and fun during this time.



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Thu, 05-03-2007 - 4:46pm
Am I in for a rude awakening and this will go away when I get through menopause? My gyn did have to change my BC because my hormones were making me bleed when I shouldn't have been. That has all been corrected and he said I have a good 5 more years before I really am done. Where are all these women that are keeping this a secret?? I probably wouldn't have believed it anyway. ;-)



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