Female arousal-anyone else?

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Female arousal-anyone else?
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Thu, 05-03-2007 - 10:25am

Since my libido has taken flying leap this past year and the sex that dh and I have been having has been so incredible I have noticed something increasing which has totally surprised me. I am curious if this is something other women have ever exerienced.

Even after having sex with multiple orgasms, I will fall asleep and wake up a few hours later horney all over again! I can have 3 or more orgams in a session in the morning, be ready for more at night and want more just hours later!! DH says I am like a teenage boy but I am wondering if this is wierd. DH doesn't think so and is perfectly fine with participating when he can or letting me masterbate whenever I need to but I feel a little silly needing to when he satisfies me so much but after a little rest I am ready to go again!I have noticed this to have gotten more extreme since we figured out how to have me have G-spot orgasms. I feel like I am addicted to orgasms. I am not sure I want it to go away either!!



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Fri, 05-04-2007 - 5:08pm
I am so jealous and happy for you. Married for 28 years this is longest he has been out of the country business trip, visted him in Nov last year then Feb this year for my BIG 50, I am really so eager....lol DD # 2 last week just blurted "you know what you need do not you?" I almost passed out, just thinking about me telling my mom that she would turn all shades of red then give me that look.
Kate
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Fri, 05-04-2007 - 5:17pm

Kate,

I feel for you. Dh and I have been apart (across the country 2500 miles) due to his work inthe past for months at a time. It was during the time when the kids were little so I think I didn;t miss him that much. By the time it was bedtime, with little kids, all I could think of was sleep! Now with teens who are almost never home and most certainly leave us alone as much as THEY can, life is so different.

"you know what you need do not you?" I would still probably turn red if my kids said this to me...



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Fri, 05-04-2007 - 5:17pm
Thanks. I will be visiting him in June, can not wait....he has been out of the country since last Sept. his comapny just renewed the contarct and he was asked to stay till the end of Aug with an EXTRA RT.....ticket which can be used by either he or me....
Kate
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Fri, 05-04-2007 - 8:07pm

Kate, think about taking a video camera with you when you go in June. Another member had told me about a tape her DH made for her of him masturbating (and they're not even apart) so that she could use it when he wasn't around. DH is going to make me one when the opportunity is available. I just think that's HOT, and it will probably help you pass the extra couple months until he returns.

Of course, he might want you to make one for him too. You could even make one of the two of you.



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Fri, 05-04-2007 - 10:58pm

"Where are all these women who are keeping it a secret?"

Pssst....we're too busy having sex to get a group organized, but don't tell anybody...shhhhh!











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Sat, 05-05-2007 - 4:50am
livingproof-Married 42 years. Have always had lots of sex. DW has always been hot and had orgasms easily. When we were younger we had more sex.
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Sat, 05-05-2007 - 7:07am

Married 42 years. Have always had lots of sex.

AWESOME! Our role model of what we can look forward to!



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Sat, 05-05-2007 - 7:14am

Misty,

I did this as well for my dh when I left for a trip. I showed it to him right before I left. He said it got him more excited than anything else he has seen. Sure made for a fabulous homecoming later!



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Sat, 05-05-2007 - 10:45am
years ago we had taken some pics, you know the kind you do not want your mom or kids to find out about, now they are either faded or discolored. Should we make a video, my luck I will do something silly at the customs and the agents will bust me...I will make the 6 o'clock news, local paper "50 y.o mom, wife gets busted for transporting badly made self porn into the country....." both DD will deny knowing me, DH will be 6000 miles away laughing, my mom will be totally shocked, and I will die! while everyone else will be having fun at my lousy porn acting career.
Kate
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Sat, 05-05-2007 - 11:07am

I can't believe that none of you ladies with the AWOL husbands haven't got webcams! Almost as good as being there! Much better than pictures or videos. A set of webcams can be had for very little cost. Just plug them in and you're good to go.

Someone asked why this has been kept a secret.....it hasn't, you just weren't paying attention. When you go into perimenopause, anywhere from your late 30's to your 50's, depending on the gene's you inherited....your estrogen levels drop (they've been supressing your testosterone all these years) and the testosterone takes over....thus the comparison to "teenaged boys". Also, when you get a little older, your kids are grown & gone, your finances are better, life is easier, and you have more time to THINK about it. Gone are the days when women went thru menopause, and gave up all that "stuff". A lot of libido is mental, as well as physical. I'm 71, and it's better than ever. I was taken off HRT a few years ago, and the only thing that changed was lack of lubrication, and KY takes care of that problem easily.

Men as well as women can be sexually active well into their 70's and 80's....as long as they're healthy. The "quantity" might drop off, but the "quality" gets better and better.