Female Ejaculation: FACT or FICTION?

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Female Ejaculation: FACT or FICTION?
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Sat, 11-17-2007 - 3:31pm

Female Ejaculation: FACT or FICTION?



  • It works for me!
  • I've tried, can't do it.
  • I want to believe it exists ....
  • I hope to be able to one day ;o)
  • I think everyone can -- if they learn how.
  • I think some can, but not all are capable.
  • What a CROCK!
  • Let me tell you what I think ...


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Registered: 12-12-2006
Sat, 11-17-2007 - 4:01pm

I can attest to the fact that it IS fact.

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Sat, 11-17-2007 - 4:22pm

I'm interested in exploring it further. But. It seems to irritate my urethra. I am very very susceptible to bladder infections so the slightest twinge of that nature makes me withdraw from the sensation. It is more than the sensation of needing to pee. It reminds of the tingling/prickly feeling I get as I am getting a bladder infection and there are too many bad/painful mental associations with that.


Not sure if I will ever get over that. =(


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Registered: 03-31-2007
Sat, 11-17-2007 - 4:33pm

I know that for me, it does seem that I had to learn how to do it. I don't agree that it's not always great -- it is one of the greatest sensations I've ever experienced. Having said that, I do agree that it always makes a mess, sometimes more than others. It doesn't happen in all positions for me, and I am able to stop it if I concentrate to do so. There are times that I do that, but rarely. Now that I have learned how to do it, it does seem to take a lot more concentration to not do it than any effort it takes to actually do it.

To protect the bedding, I've put a rubber backed bath mat, folded in half, into a pillow case. It fits nicely beneath us, and doesn't feel significantly different from the bedding. When we remember to use it, it saves all the necessity of clean up, and is easy enough to throw in the washer.





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Registered: 03-31-2007
Sat, 11-17-2007 - 4:40pm

I can understand how that would make it difficult on concentrating to learn to do this. Luckily, I've never had problems with bladder infections.

I know the one tip I picked up from a book, that helped me more than anything else, was to relax and go with the feeling. When you get the feeling that you have to pee, you actually have to trust that it's not actually pee, and push out slightly. I was totally shocked the first time it happened, and stopped it quickly, lol. The next time I tried, I knew how to accomplish it, and just went with it. It's definitely a different sensation, and it drives my hubby wild.

Hopefully it will work for you eventually. Even without FE, the g-spot stimulation is amazing, so it's all good.





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Registered: 02-28-2006
Sat, 11-17-2007 - 6:41pm
Your answers aren't really worded such that they make sense for us guys — but I know for a fact that DW FE's, so I answered 'it works for me' (meaning 'it works for her').






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Registered: 03-31-2007
Sat, 11-17-2007 - 8:04pm
LOL, that works for me, Steve!




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Registered: 11-26-2004
Mon, 11-19-2007 - 5:55am

Obviously, it's not fiction, due to some of the responses.

Imagination is more important than knowledge." (Albert Einstein )
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Registered: 03-15-2006
Mon, 11-19-2007 - 6:09am
That is a very good point - being able to solo anythime, any where with little or no mess - good for you girl.

 Rich, good to the last drop

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Registered: 12-12-2006
Mon, 11-19-2007 - 9:14am

I think many men and women think that FE is a "byproduct" of an orgasm.

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Registered: 11-15-2006
Mon, 11-19-2007 - 9:19am

I am one who is multiorgasmic and just recently figured out that I must FE but never have had a "stream" squirting out of me. Often dh will hit my gspot and I will have an orgasm and we both feel a FLOOD and I have oodles of liquid coming out of me, way more than just lubrication because it flows AFTER I orgasm.


The orgasm that leads to this is SO different than other ones, my whole body feels the pleasure.


When I have only clitoral stimulation or clit and vaginal but NOT in the right angle, I don't get that flood with my orgasms.



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