Female Ejaculation: FACT or FICTION?

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Female Ejaculation: FACT or FICTION?
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Sat, 11-17-2007 - 3:31pm

Female Ejaculation: FACT or FICTION?



  • It works for me!
  • I've tried, can't do it.
  • I want to believe it exists ....
  • I hope to be able to one day ;o)
  • I think everyone can -- if they learn how.
  • I think some can, but not all are capable.
  • What a CROCK!
  • Let me tell you what I think ...


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Registered: 12-12-2006
Mon, 11-19-2007 - 9:42am

There you go!

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Mon, 11-19-2007 - 10:17am

I think there have been some good descriptions here of FE, and the difference a women feels when it's going to happen. I just wanted to point out that it doesn't happen every time I have sex, or every time I have an orgasm. It has never happened during masturbation. I have never tried to make it happen during masturbation. Even though I am capable of ejaculating, I don't always prefer to. Knowing how to stop it from happening is what brings about the realization of why it didn't happen for so many years.

For me, I typically draw my muscles upward during orgasm. My PC muscles are typically very active during intercourse and other types of sexual activity. If I work my body in that fashion, I don't ejaculate, even with g-spot stimulation. It's when I let go during g-spot stimulation and go with the feeling of having to pee that I am able to ejaculate -- so there is control over when it happens. As others have mentioned, it also is typically a result of g-spot stimulation, so that can also offer control over when it happens too. Using a position that doesn't provide that stimulation is usually enough.

I will add that once you are able to FE, it does require some control (restraint) to not FE during g-spot stimulation. Personally, I don't think it's any more control than what a man would have to exercise to avoid cumming. Working to hold off on FE often makes the reward more rewarding too.





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Registered: 03-15-2006
Mon, 11-19-2007 - 12:57pm
Your second paragraph about how you tighten and relax your PC muscles and the resulting response of your body in FE'ing and not reminds me a lot of my responses when I solo.

 Rich, good to the last drop

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Mon, 11-19-2007 - 3:53pm
Well, there is always that point of no return ;-)




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Registered: 05-19-2003
Tue, 11-20-2007 - 10:11am

I'm jealous.


I can't do this for nothing and I think I've tried most things. but I also have a general problem with regular lubrication and need to use lube most times. I just don't get very wet at all.


I wish I could, it looks like such fun!

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Tue, 11-20-2007 - 12:45pm

Gotta think "I think I can, I think I can, I think I can ..."

If at first you don't succeed, try, try again, lol.





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Registered: 02-17-2007
Tue, 11-20-2007 - 10:06pm
I am actually a pressure squirter LOL

 

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Registered: 02-02-2004
Tue, 11-20-2007 - 10:47pm

I saw a video of a lady masturbating (only showed her head on beautiful agony dot com). She soaked her pillow because her FE came over her head. Her pillow was soaked.


Does that really happen and if so how?

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Wed, 11-21-2007 - 9:44am

Well, it doesn't happen for me!

I've never ejaculated while masturbating, but even if I did, I don't think that would occur for me. I suppose if she pulls upward on her mound, it could direct a flow that would shoot toward her head, but I'm inclined to think it was added in for affect of the video.





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Registered: 02-17-2007
Fri, 11-23-2007 - 8:21pm
As Misty said, the video was probably fake.