"Flooding" would more accurately describe what DW experiences than "squirting" would, just a big gush of fluid. If I'm in control of the vibe on her clit then I turn it up just when I start to feel the "gush" happen, and it launches her into orbit. It takes so much out of her that she's usually done after one. I know what you see in porn looks more like squirting, but most of that is fake and the actresses are actually peeing.
It's much more of a flooding for me than a squirting too, Liv. Sometimes I squirt, but it depends on the position and my activity at the time.
It's not always in time with the receding of an orgasm though. Sometimes it's independent of an orgasm all together, and yes, DH definitely feels it. It's very, very thin. You know how your vagina lubricates and everything starts to feel slippery? Well, this doesn't have that slippery feeling at all. (There's no mucus like substance to it, just wetness, nearly like warm water.) LOL, it also splashes a lot easier than the fluid that comes from the vagina. (Think splashing in a small puddle.)
The amount is absolutely copious. If there's no protection on the bedding, we have to rub and blot it dry and then put a towel over it to sleep on, even after changing the sheets. The towel will be very damp in the morning, and I have to leave air space for the bed to dry out during the day.
The feeling from that release is equally as good as the g-spot orgasm, and often follows the same sort of wave process. (Makes me wonder where it comes from because it never seems to run dry.) For me, I think the flooding aspect vs. squirting aspect has to do with how relaxed I am when it occurs. I'm usually zoned into the g-spot stimulation (which is simply incredible), and then I feel this sort of pressure release. When DH has used his fingers for the stimulation, he says he can actually feel the changes in the spongy feel when FE occurs.
Once I started having FE, it took a while (and practice) to learn how to control it. (By control, it's really more of a stopping when you aren't prepared for it and don't want the flood.) That takes a good bit of concentration and strong PC muscles that can hold for a long time. When I don't win that battle, that's when I tend to squirt more than flood. I believe it's because of the muscle contraction, sort of like the two are working against each other, so there's more force. Position can change the muscles too (like with your legs lifted), so that seems to make a difference for the release I have as well.
(Whew, talking about this is making me really hope my play date works out, LOL.)
I agree with the others.....I know it's called "squirting" but other than in a few porn films (and I really believe it's urine in those cases) I don't think anyone really squirts.
In my own case, it's usually when I'm on top, so there's no place to "squirt" to.......since I'm up against him, or sometimes during oral when he uses his fingers to get the "g" spot......and again, no place to go but in his face (which he loves).
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It's much more of a flooding for me than a squirting too, Liv. Sometimes I squirt, but it depends on the position and my activity at the time.
It's not always in time with the receding of an orgasm though. Sometimes it's independent of an orgasm all together, and yes, DH definitely feels it. It's very, very thin. You know how your vagina lubricates and everything starts to feel slippery? Well, this doesn't have that slippery feeling at all. (There's no mucus like substance to it, just wetness, nearly like warm water.) LOL, it also splashes a lot easier than the fluid that comes from the vagina. (Think splashing in a small puddle.)
The amount is absolutely copious. If there's no protection on the bedding, we have to rub and blot it dry and then put a towel over it to sleep on, even after changing the sheets. The towel will be very damp in the morning, and I have to leave air space for the bed to dry out during the day.
The feeling from that release is equally as good as the g-spot orgasm, and often follows the same sort of wave process. (Makes me wonder where it comes from because it never seems to run dry.) For me, I think the flooding aspect vs. squirting aspect has to do with how relaxed I am when it occurs. I'm usually zoned into the g-spot stimulation (which is simply incredible), and then I feel this sort of pressure release. When DH has used his fingers for the stimulation, he says he can actually feel the changes in the spongy feel when FE occurs.
Once I started having FE, it took a while (and practice) to learn how to control it. (By control, it's really more of a stopping when you aren't prepared for it and don't want the flood.) That takes a good bit of concentration and strong PC muscles that can hold for a long time. When I don't win that battle, that's when I tend to squirt more than flood. I believe it's because of the muscle contraction, sort of like the two are working against each other, so there's more force. Position can change the muscles too (like with your legs lifted), so that seems to make a difference for the release I have as well.
(Whew, talking about this is making me really hope my play date works out, LOL.)
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I agree with the others.....I know it's called "squirting" but other than in a few porn films (and I really believe it's urine in those cases) I don't think anyone really squirts.
In my own case, it's usually when I'm on top, so there's no place to "squirt" to.......since I'm up against him, or sometimes during oral when he uses his fingers to get the "g" spot......and again, no place to go but in his face (which he loves).
Liv,
I'm more of a gusher than a squirter.
Carolyn,
Seems more of us are gushers than squirters! Love the popcorn gal!
Hi Carolyn,
Great new siggy pic!
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Thanks, guys!
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