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female orgasm?
| Fri, 08-17-2007 - 2:32am |
this may be TMI but every time my bf goes down on me I get this really intense feeling like i'm going to pee, I know that some orgasms give you the feeling that you're going to pee, but I always hold back for some reason. I'll pee right before he goes down on me so i know in my head i won't but im still afraid it might be -- that would be so embarassing!! haha i wanna be able to let go and not hold back the feeling but i cant so far

Welcome to the board dee012.
Are you having orgasms when your BF goes down on you? With any type of orgasm, the ability to let yourself go and enjoy the pleasure plays a big role in actually having an orgasm.
It sounds like you are describing the feelings associated with female ejaculation (FE); however, this most often occurs during g-spot stimulation. If he's using his fingers or a dildo inside of you while also performing oral, you are in a perfect situation to have an orgasm that also includes FE! You will feel as if you need to pee. Relax enough to allow yourself to go with that feeling, and push outward when you have that feeling. The fluid is not urine if it is FE; however, you can also push urine out.
Here's a link to a great website, www.the-clitoris.com. I have posted the section that deals with female ejaculate:
http://www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/ejacula.htm
You might want to discuss this with your BF once you are sure what's going on. If he doesn't fancy having his face drenched, you might have to work out a way to let him know you are about to ejaculate. There are also a lot of positions that will allow for g-spot stimulation during intercourse, which is a fantastic feeling. You might want to experiment with those as well. I know my hubby loves the feeling of me ejaculating during intercourse.
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