females opinion on males masturbation

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females opinion on males masturbation
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Wed, 04-20-2005 - 6:03am

Girls and Women,

I would like to know females opinion or view about males character in the following situation :

1.A man when he masturbate alone.
2.A man when he masturbate after watching porn movies or after looking at naked woman's
picture.
3.A man who do not want to masturbate or afraid of it.
4.A man who masturbate in front of his female partner.

Do you agree that men should masturbate more than women or they should have sex more than women? Please share you view.

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Wed, 04-20-2005 - 7:26am

1.A man when he masturbate alone.


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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 04-20-2005 - 11:37am

1. Well, since I masturbate alone, I think it's okay for a man to do the same.
2. It's okay with a man to masturbate using porn, if he and his partner are okay with it.
3. A man should have the choice, just as women do, to masturbate or not. IF he wants to but is fearful of it, then there's always therapy.
4. IF his partner is okay with witnessing it, then there's nothing wrong with a man masturbating in front of a partner.

In all these cases though, there are other factors that might or might not affect my answers.




Edited 4/20/2005 11:46 am ET ET by katmandoo2001
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Registered: 05-27-2004
Wed, 04-20-2005 - 12:41pm

If a man is breathing, it's a 99% sure bet that he masturbates!

How, when, with what, and with whom is HIS business. The only time it becomes a partner's business is if he's addicted to masturbation, and ignores his partner completely because of it.

Should men masturbate more than women? It depends on which man and which woman!

Should men have sex more than women? It depends on which man and which woman!

There are no rules, and since everyone, male or female, is uniquely different, the answers depend on which man and which woman.

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Registered: 08-18-2004
Wed, 04-20-2005 - 2:17pm

1.A man when he masturbate alone.
perfectly fine.

2.A man when he masturbate after watching porn movies or after looking at naked woman's
picture.
who cares, perfectly fine.

3.A man who do not want to masturbate or afraid of it.
perfectly fine, although seems a little weird. why would they be afraid of it?

4.A man who masturbate in front of his female partner.
HOT, but a lot of girls think it's gross.

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Registered: 12-22-2004
Wed, 04-20-2005 - 8:53pm
I have a major issue with this masturbating issue. My guy and I rarely have sex because he does it all the time. He can watch a commercial and release. He can read a target swimsuit ad and release. Oh my! I have gone rounds with him about the videos and crap but he doesn't care. I have been trying to conceive but by the time the week-end comes around he is tired because he's done it all week. So although I jump I scream I cry because he does it things do not change. So I gave up on the whole thing and we are like a pair of old folks he gets home from work so do I I cook dinner and we go to sleep. Literally! He has videos by the way that he watches too! so...it sucks I hate the whole thing....And for all those reading this, I am not a bad looking female. But I am faithful to him and if that is the way it is going to be....oh well.....I will be fine...
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Registered: 04-23-2004
Wed, 04-20-2005 - 9:12pm

What does he say about it when you've talked to him and


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Registered: 12-22-2004
Wed, 04-20-2005 - 9:25pm
He says that he always was this way and not to worry he just has to get used to the idea of being in a relation I am 35 and he is 38 he has never been married or had a long time relation until I came along. He is very responsible I don;t need for anything and he is a workaholic, he just bought me a new house but still the matter is we don't do the wild thing and I miss it, I miss the closeness with him. I love him dearly but I can't get him to open up about much of the matter.
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Registered: 10-18-2003
Wed, 04-20-2005 - 9:33pm

1.A man when he masturbate alone. -- As long as the frequency of sex with his partner doesn't decrease as the frequency of masturbation increases there isn't any problem.



2.A man when he masturbate after watching porn movies or after looking at naked woman's

Choose your friends by their character and your socks by their color.  Choosing your socks by their character makes no sense and choosing your friends by their color is unthinkable.

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Registered: 01-11-2005
Tue, 04-26-2005 - 3:00pm

I dont think theres anything wrong with guys maturbating after all dont we all do that at some point and time? My guy does it so do I, its a normal part of life. If you cant be with the one you love then love the one your with!!! YOU.

MJR

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Registered: 04-26-2005
Tue, 04-26-2005 - 3:13pm
There was a comment posted a little way back about 99.9% men masterbate. What about women? What is that percentage? My wife says she don't and she don't like it. I find that hard to believe, because she'll reach down before making love and rub my penis over her lips... Just wondering...

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