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Fetish Accusations.
| Thu, 10-20-2005 - 10:31pm |
I know i cant spell, so im sorry if my verbal vocabulary outwits my written. On to the point!! I read an old discussion where a woman said that all men had some form of a foot fetish. Take this from a person who has a very formidable foot fetish, not all men do. I have been harrased about it after admitting to it, it didnt bother me because i'm proud of who i am, it just let me know i shouldnt go into great detail of my interrest of feet. I was very lucky to have fallen in love with a woman who finds my fetish flattering instead of disconcerning. To give you an idea, i often give her foot messages, suck on her toes, recieve footjobs, etc. Most men i know have no interrest in these things, or atleast would never admit to it. My wonderful and amazing gf even indulges me with little things like wearing flip flops so i can see her feet, or rub my leg with her foot under the dinner table. She'll even go as far as to bring me her sox after walking around college all day. The men who will read this will have one of three reactions: 1. Agree (or worse say,"thats all? i can do one better!"), 2. partially agree and admit to admiring their womans feet, but thats about it, or 3. completly disagree and state that they wouldnt touch feet unless their womans shoe was stuck. So no, not all men enjoy feet. I do, but i know im a unique character. I know there are others worse of than I, and i kind of enjoy it, I enjoy being warm water in a hot/cold world.

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Thanks, Mary, that's nice of you to say.
And I think we've all been in those uncomfortable situations too many times to count. They're embarrassing to remember, much less tell anyone else about, but I think it's good to own your humanness....even the worst parts of it.
Okay, now it's YOUR turn to fill out the rest of your profile so we can learn more about YOU!
Edited 10/25/2005 4:15 pm ET by katmandoo2001
Personally I don't think it has anything to do with the heels as such, it has to do with guys liking women that dress nicely. It shows they like to look good and respect themselves. I'm fairly attractive and can dress in tight sports clothing and not attract any attention, but as soon as I dress up I can attract a lot. It's also about the way that a woman carries herself. If a woman looks confident in what she is wearing, she will attract more attention than someone who looks drab and self conscious.
Besides, high heels help accentuate the calf muscles and elongate the legs, so it's not just about the feet.
Mary--I agree with you 100%. My wife gets a little irritated sometimes because I do carry on more when she's in jeans/skirt and 3 1/2" stilettos vs. the same outfit and flip flops or sneakers.
For me, the fascination is two-fold. First, I find high heels to be very, very sexy. Second, depending on the height of the heel, I often gaze in amazement that women who know how to wear heels function better in stilettos than I do in sneakers!
My wife humors me, but is defintely the flip flop type.
Hope to see you walking through a near by mall! (LOL)
TR
In my opinion, no one has it right yet. The best part of being human is that everyone is different. Every person has their own jazz they like to swing to. I dont really have a prefference when it comes to high heels, sneekers, or flip flops. I like my gf's feet, not the shoes she wears. I think that even though you know people and friends, theres no real way to know all their kinks, so to say you dont know someone who likes feet isnt saying much. Even if you stopped people in the street, i think alot of people would deny it just because its not a very highly popular fetish, or preference. I like feet, but i dont have to see or touch them to get off. It helps, but its not a must. So this is a question that will never be answered, all i can say is that you should be proud of what you are.
One thing i do have a statement about, if your with someone, there should be nothing about them that turns you off. If your so worried about it that when your dw or gf ask you to do something and you all the sudden lose your drive, i think that qualifies as a phobia.
I believe I had a brush with a foot fetishist once. My girlfriends took me to a very hip gay club when I turned 30. It was the kind of place with guys in devil costumes or biker wear (and of course the requisite drag queens) who dance in cages over a neon-lit dance floor to industrial rock. I had a few cocktails but wasn't really getting buzzed until my friend bought me some concoction made of peppermint schnapps and Jaegermeister. I downed that and was instantly zonked. I left my friends to dance and sat on one of the squishy couches in the quieter lounge to get some air, and this guy sat down near me.
Since most of the clientele wouldn't be interested in hitting on me, I didn't think much about it when he talked to me.
"Excuse me, miss?" he said (or rather, slurred).
"Yeah?" (equally slurred)
"Can I rub your feet?"
"Um, no thank you."
I figured that was a good time to rejoin my friends, so I did. But I hope for his sake he found some feet to rub consensually!
--Fran
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