A few small penis questions
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A few small penis questions
| Mon, 02-27-2006 - 6:29pm |
Im sorry if this comes up all the time but I was wondering if you could tell me..
1. What do you consider to be a small penis?
2. How small do you think 4 1/2- 4 1/2 inches is (tiny, not that small, etc)
3. Do you care if someone has a small penis?

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Hi Ladies:
From a guy with a 4 inch penis, I learned to be a better lover.
Mac
I vaguely remember a thread somewhere here about that and their "enhancement products" ....
CH
I assume you're referring to my post about male ballet dancers? And no size doesn't matter with them because as other posters informed me, male ballet dancers wear padding in that area so what you're seeing may not be what you'll get.
When it comes to the bedroom (or other area sex is performed in your home), I stand firm that size is not important - it's all in what they do with what they have. I've had fingers satisfy me for hours (so much so that I always said I would get them bronzed when he died, but alas I never followed through because I didn't know how to explain it to our daughter - LOL!).
However, size is enjoyable when it comes to looking at a package. Ask any man which he prefers to see: a 32A chest or a 40DD? Does his answer mean that a 32A isn't as enjoyable as a 40DD? The male ballet dancers turned me on because I've never seen that size of a package walking down the street. Now, I do agree that sometimes, seeing the size is not good - saw picture of a flacid John Holmes (it almost touched his knee) and ugly doesn't even begin to describe my thoughts on it.
I'm unclear, so size doens't matter with the ballet dancers because their padded and may not be big, but doens't that imply that it would matter if they were big?
Actually, I know of only two ways size can matter. Either the women likes the feel ( stretching, fullness, etc) or the visual appeal of a larger penis. If you take those two attributes away, I'm not sure how size can matter.
Hello, I have the same opinion, if the guy is just the right guy and you know it, what is the matter what is the size, but my problem is that when that is an issue to him, he feels unsecure and self-confident is little down. so how you handle that? that is more important.
I am having this problem and hope someone would help me as well, he is great guy and everything i want in life but he feels that he is not pleasing me much so he pulls back and i am affraid that he break up with me just because of that.
any thoughts on that??
thanks
Well, HIS point of view ISN'T more important than yours but it definitely can affect the relationship if he feels insecure about his size.
The only person who can change his attitude about his size is him but you can help by encouraging, reassuring and praising him and that can help him overcome this insecurity over time. IF he gives you the chance.
He can't run away from this problem by moving onto another person though. It will follow him into every relationship unless he deals with it.
The change starts with him. And incidently, most guys feel insecure about their size at some point in their lives, so he's not so unusual. We ALL have our insecurities.
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