First Date after a long relationship
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| Sun, 12-03-2006 - 8:25pm |
I am single again and it has been a long time since I had a first date. A quick summary: I am 34, no kids, never married (my last g/f and I were together about 10 years and lived together most of that time -- talked of marrage but never did, until we ended it). Hmm I have a small dog, a cat, and fish (120gal and a 30gal both fresh). Oh and now is the time of year my compay gives away O/T like it is going out of style so I am working about 60 hours a week. It was more or less over between us in late March of '06. I have struck out twice in the last few weeks. The first I feel bad I did something stupid -- she said we can be friends but give her some time -- I still feel bad for her. The second we both flirted for several days and I finally said so what about saturday she said what about it and then it dawned on both of us -- she was just being friendly I was blind she was married (in my def. most of this went on over the phone after just a short meeting) -- I took it well and we both agreed to be friends. I am hoping for some help form her as well. So for now, I don't have one gal in mind but am kinda scared as to what to do.
J


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I have been reading this board off and on for a while, and see the general concinus is sex comes when it feels right for both what ever that means. & I have just found the local guide part of this 'board' it seems to be for mothers and women but I will post a similar ideas message there as well.
Jason
What's your question? This post is confusing.....and your second one is more confusing! What concensus are you looking for?