First date sex

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Registered: 08-02-2004
First date sex
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Tue, 08-26-2008 - 10:24am
Have any of you had sex on the first date? I guess by sex I either mean oral sex or intercourse. My first wife and I had intercourse the first date we had. We ended up getting married and was so for 17 years until she passed away, so it's not always bad.

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Registered: 08-02-2004
In reply to: manunit
Thu, 08-28-2008 - 10:20am

I agree with what you are saying about sexual chemistry. I've been on a few days where that sexual chemistry is strong and it's fun. It's sort of a big turn on to find yourself undressing someone you have only been on one date with, maybe just met. I think for a guy it's a turn on because it means you may have turned on this person so much to make her have sex with you.

My second wife made me wait for a while, don't remember how long but it was longer than I normally wait. We were having fun on our dates doing other things so I hung in there. It ultimately didn't make me respect her any more than if we would have had sex early.

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Registered: 08-02-2004
In reply to: manunit
Thu, 08-28-2008 - 10:21am
What would make it a good or bad thing for you?
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Registered: 01-02-2008
In reply to: manunit
Thu, 08-28-2008 - 10:46am
I've had sex on the firt date.

 

 

 

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Registered: 05-04-2008
In reply to: manunit
Thu, 08-28-2008 - 2:14pm
A good thing would be having sex on the first date and finding out that you both are totally sexually compatible. The bad would be having sex on the first day, you wanting more, however for your partner it was just a one night stand.

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Registered: 12-25-2006
In reply to: manunit
Thu, 08-28-2008 - 3:30pm

I was just thinking that one night stands are by definition "First (and last) Date Sex".....












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Registered: 05-18-2008
In reply to: manunit
Thu, 08-28-2008 - 8:16pm
I have had first date sex a few times.
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Registered: 08-30-2008
In reply to: manunit
Sat, 08-30-2008 - 10:26am
had first date sex on many occasions. Some times it was a bad choice sometimes not. I like sex so didn't worry about 'will he respect me in the morning'. My partner (of 5 years) is still here so sometimes they do!! just depends if you can take the rejection if they don't. xx
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Registered: 03-31-2007
In reply to: manunit
Sat, 08-30-2008 - 3:12pm
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Registered: 01-26-2006
In reply to: manunit
Sat, 09-20-2008 - 1:00am
I am a highly sexed woman. I get a thrill from going out with a guy for the first time (or picking him up!) and anticipating a night of sex. I have had sex on the first date at least 25 times--mmm, mmm!

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