First time anal

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Registered: 11-25-2007
First time anal
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Sun, 02-03-2008 - 5:55pm

Hi, I had my first anal expirence yesterday. I was wondering if it was normal to feel as if you had to go to the bathroom, as in BM during? also, does it ever happen?

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Registered: 12-03-2007
Sun, 02-03-2008 - 7:14pm


Yes this normal, there is a nerve bundle that gets irritated on penetration and makes you want to "push". It takes practice to relax the muscles in this area and learn to ignore this urge.

As to the second part of your question the answer is yes, it can happen so my best advice is to use the loo before you try it again. Also the stimulation to the nerve bundle I mentioned can make you want to go again after your done.

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Registered: 12-27-2007
Mon, 02-04-2008 - 12:02am
Believe it or not, many people come to enjoy the very feeling you are talking about. Have a good poo a couple hours before you do the do, relax and try to ejoy the feelng, no fuss no muss!

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Wed, 02-06-2008 - 2:29pm

Welcome to the board, Ashley, and congratulations on the baby!

I think it's normal to experience some sensations like you're going to have a bowel movement, but have never heard of anyone actually having a bowel movement during anal sex.

Since some fecal matter might linger, be sure to practice safe anal sex to avoid having any contamination in your vagina. I'm sure you know, but make sure you never go from anal to vaginal sex without him cleaning in between. Wearing a condom is also a good choice as it will keep him from getting any type of infection, and it can be removed for quick and easy clean up.





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Registered: 02-10-2008
Sun, 02-10-2008 - 6:41pm

I had anal sex for this first time with my boyfriend yesterday. (We've been together 4 years) It was great, and I really enjoyed it. I consider myself lucky for having such a great experience. It actually wasnt painful at all. Anyway, everything was fine.


The next day we did it again and the first time was fine. A little while later, having another go at it, it was a little painful so we stopped.


About a 1/2 hour later I was just standing there and a small amount of poop came out out of nowhere. I was shocked because i didnt even feel it. I'm scared and i dont know if this is normal. Please HELP. i'm getting worried.


Thank you.

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Sun, 02-10-2008 - 8:00pm

Welcome to the board, lchilly16.

I've never had anal sex with such frequency, so I really can't comment on if it would have any affect. It's possible that your muscles were very relaxed (tired) from so much activity.

There shouldn't be pain. While you mention that you stopped when it was painful, if you feel that you may have waited too long, or experienced too much pain, and you're having problems, you should see a doctor to get checked.

Perhaps other members with more experience will chime it with different advice.

Keep us posted on how you're doing.



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