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First time giving head
| Sun, 07-03-2005 - 11:26am |
hi everyone! ok i plan on giving head to my boyfriend next chance we get. this will be my first time giving head so, any suggestions? also, if i swallow do i keep stroking and sucking while he cums into my mouth? if i don't swallow what do i do? thanks a bunch!!

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What you do is say: "guess what I'm going to do for you.....but before I start, I need you to tell me how you like it done." HE is the only one who can tell you what he likes, because all guys are different, and like different things.....faster, slower, tighter, looser, etc. He'll be VERY happy to tell you! OR, you can just DO it....and after a few moments, stop, look at him, and say" "How's that? Do you want me to go faster, or slower? Do you want me to hold you tighter?" Again, he'll give you the answers you need.
I would suggest that until you get used to it, you ask him to tell you when it's about to happen, and to pull out at that point. You don't have to swallow.....and you don't have to let him ejaculate in your mouth. If you WANT to, then do whatever is comfortable at that point. You can swallow it, or you can have a tissue handy, and spit it out. Your choice.
hiya
there are no rules how to how not to, just dont bite it off, if its the first time you are doing it with him he will love it anyway as long as its going in your mouth. and although men love it when a woman swallows i would suggest not to the first time, i gaged the first time i did it i really was not expecting it,
i find that if your not getting the response you hoped for i tend to play the banjo card hold his penis loosly and move your hand up and down at a nice rythm and firmly lick where his frenulum is (banjo string) is three or four times and then just take the tip into your mouth and repeat a few times i have never failed with this one this site is anatomy of the penis but gives some great tips (http://www.noharmm.org/anatomy.htm)
hope all goes well
>>if i swallow do i keep stroking and sucking while he cums into my mouth?<<
You'll probably be busy just trying to swallow it without trying to do anything-else. Don't forget that it squirts out so that will be distracting when it happens. Just keep holding his penis, you don't need to do anything; although you might like to try stroking it or somethink another time when you're comfortable with the whole swallowing thing.
If I were you, I'd ask him to tell you when he's about to cum.
>> if i don't swallow what do i do?<<
You can let it squirt/dribble out of your mouth and smear it all over his penis or just let it drip onto your chest and breasts (that can be pretty sexy).
Or you can just hold it in your mouth and discretely grab a tissue or something and spit into that afterwards.
Or you can take his penis out of your mouth just before he starts to cum and continue to pump it with your hand and let him ejeculate onto your chest or on his stomach or something.
You'll probably need to slow down and stop moments after he stops cumming as most guys get really sensitive afterwards.
Hi poptart
A couple of posters have mentioned the taste of his cum. If you are unsure of what your guy tastes like, give him a handjob and dip your finger into some of his cum and then lick your finger. It won't always be the same as his diet will affect the taste. I agree with the posters that say you don't have to let him cum in your mouth. It's your decision. If you don't want him to cum in your mouth have him tell you before he ejaculates so that you can finish him with a handjob or intercourse. It is my sincere hope that he will reciprocate by going down on you, either before or after you do him. Good luck and keep us posted.
Redbaron
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