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The first time is over with, kind of :)
| Tue, 06-22-2004 - 9:38pm |
I'm in a long distance relationship and last month we kind of had sex for the first time. He was about halfway in and I didn't feel any pain while he was entering, but when he started moving back and forth it hurt a lot and I had to ask him to stop. I got on top then and it was better as long as I didn't try to get him in any farther. And then I was soooo sore the next 2 days.
What can I do to make it less painful during our next visit? It is kind of hard dealing with this long distance. Despite the two months in between, will it still go easier next time? Or do you have to do it all the time to keep things comfortable? Also I'm kind of wondering why it wouldn't go in any more. I had a checkup and the doctor said I have no hymen.
What can I do to make it less painful during our next visit? It is kind of hard dealing with this long distance. Despite the two months in between, will it still go easier next time? Or do you have to do it all the time to keep things comfortable? Also I'm kind of wondering why it wouldn't go in any more. I had a checkup and the doctor said I have no hymen.

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No, you don't have to do it constantly to make it comfortable. But, if you do it more often, which you can't, you'll get over the nervousness faster. Once you're comfortable with sex, you can wait 10 years, and it will be no different than if you'd done it the day before, UNLESS of course, you're nervous.