first time!! pls help!!
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first time!! pls help!!
| Fri, 12-01-2006 - 9:01am |
my girlfriend stayed over at my house last wk and we did it for the first time after 3yrs! finally! i'm 18 and she's 17..we have tried not to do it for nearly 3yrs by just doing fooling around with each other..like hj and fingering..ok now's the question..we did it in the afternoon and i wore a condom of course..at first i wore the condom the opposite way..i knew there was precum so i quickly put it in my mouth for a few times to lick off the precum (i regretted not changing a new one). then at night while i was slping..my gf woke me up and told me that she felt uncomfortable down there..she said she felt like there was something inside her..like air? just uncomfortable..do u girls experience that after the first time having sex? she was on the 9th day of her period cycle. is that signs of pregnacy? i'm really scared now..

You had sex in the afternoon and that night she woke you saying she felt uncomfortable.
if air does go into her vagina during sexual intercourse, why did she experience the "queefs" or vaginal farts when i always used to finger her last time?
If that's the first time she had intercourse, then she is probably just sore and swollen in and around her vagina. Most first times aren't the greatest for girls, They aren't well lubricated, she's just sore, and she's not sure what she's feeling. Next time, get some sexual lubricant and use it and it should be alright. Do NOT use vaseline, that destroys the condom. Buy some KY or Astroglide where you buy the condoms.
It's possible to get pregnant the first time you have sex, but even if it happened, she wouldn't know THAT for weeks, until she missed her next period. It's very unlikely that she is.....if you used a condom.....and discover it's wrong, then use a NEW one....you don't re-use them, even if they were on wrong (and it honestly wouldn't have made any difference if it was inside out!)
And, remember, a woman can get pregnant at ANY TIME during her cycle. I would talk about the Birth Control Pill with her. It's not for all women, but it certainly has made me much more comfortable.