First time sex (plz help me)
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First time sex (plz help me)
| Thu, 07-22-2004 - 10:18am |
I was really scared of sleepin wid my boyfriend for the first time, but last nite, we had sex. It really really hurt at the start then it was alrite it didnt hurt, but then it started to hurt agen, like jus a bit of a sharp pain. I neva bled then, but wen i got home to get changed i had strted to bleed, today there has been ALOT of blood. I was due on my period in abar 2 weeks, but cos im bleedin now dus that mean i wnt cum on my period then. Also im not in ANY pain at all afta las nite, dus this mean im still a virgin an dat we didnt properly have sex? an dus it mean my hymen hasnt been borken? Will sex hurt wen we do it agen?? Plzzz help me!!!!

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will it hurt again next time you have sex? maybe, it depends. to have better experience next time, most importantly be mentally ready. it will not be enjoyable (and probably painful again) if you're under pressure. longer foreplay would be helpful. relax and make sure you're well lubricated (use additional lubricant, like saliva or KY, if necessary). communication is the key, let him know how you feel, ask him to slow down or stop if you're in pain. some girls are afraid to do so, thinking that the guy might feel rejected, but actually you could make such request sexy and pleasant by saying you feel so good but he's too hard and big (every guy loves hearing this) so you need more time to get used to him.
You were scared so you most likely were not relaxed enough and lubricated enough.
Also i was told a lil while ago i had a cyst on my left ovary an am goin for another scan in 2 weeks 2 make sure its gone,sex dusnt do nethin to it dus it??
Being mentally ready is, make sure this is something
Also i used to be turned on very easily by my boyfriends, neva wanted to try sex tho, but was lubricated enough to be fingered an dat. But i had an operation in February jus gone. This was because my periods had strted but had clogged up inside me an so they had to make a bigger hole in my vagina for it to pass thru. And i had to have a tube up me for a day. Afta that it took a while for even me to get use to touchin myself wen id wash an dat. I dnt mind my boyfriend touchin me there, even tho its took a while. But i just can't get turned on enough. Wat can i do? I thought also that it was cos then id go the gym everyday for a few hours, an i heard exercising releases endorphins, would i get a higher sex drive by goin bak the gym???
Putting a tampon in won't make you bigger.
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