First time sex (plz help me)

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Registered: 07-19-2004
First time sex (plz help me)
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Thu, 07-22-2004 - 10:18am
I was really scared of sleepin wid my boyfriend for the first time, but last nite, we had sex. It really really hurt at the start then it was alrite it didnt hurt, but then it started to hurt agen, like jus a bit of a sharp pain. I neva bled then, but wen i got home to get changed i had strted to bleed, today there has been ALOT of blood. I was due on my period in abar 2 weeks, but cos im bleedin now dus that mean i wnt cum on my period then. Also im not in ANY pain at all afta las nite, dus this mean im still a virgin an dat we didnt properly have sex? an dus it mean my hymen hasnt been borken? Will sex hurt wen we do it agen?? Plzzz help me!!!!

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Registered: 05-14-2004
Fri, 07-23-2004 - 9:30am
I second everything Tish said. The vagina is extremely elastic-like unless you have a very low amount of estrogen, which I seriously highly doubt is true for you. Tampons are placed *in* the vagina anyways and, though it isn't possible, the part you would want to stretch is the PC muscle and tampons sit higher than that.

Since you are bleeding, you could use a tampon but I myself wouldn't. If I was *that* concerned about my bleeding and how much I was bleeding, I would want to keep an eye on it to see if it is getting lighter, heavier, etc. If the bleeding hasn't gotten any better yet and since it has been a couple days, I would make an appointment to see my gyno ASAP. Although it is rare, I have had a few friends who were frequent to getting cysts on their ovaries and it eventually developed into endometriosis. Endo can cause tearing along your vaginal walls and obviously leads to bleeding. Another possibility of the bleeding, but not the pain, is he may have busted open the cyst. I have had that happen to a friend and although I don't know if she bled or not, she didn't say it hurt. Get yourself to a doctor soon and make sure everything is ok with you.

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Registered: 07-19-2004
Fri, 07-23-2004 - 10:09am
Its been 2days now, and am still bleeding, las nite i bled ALOT, i woke up an it had leaked thru the pad an thru to my pyjamas. I hate the sight of blood an its really scaring me, am goina go make an appointment at the docs now. Is this sumthin to worry about?????
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Registered: 05-14-2004
Fri, 07-23-2004 - 10:22am
Possibly, if you are bleeding that much there could be a problem but no one on here can tell you for sure. Get to that doctor and ask all the questions you need until you are satisfied you have no more!!
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