First time sex..please help
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First time sex..please help
| Thu, 11-11-2004 - 5:24pm |
I am a virgin. I have been with my boyfriend for 8 months now. I am ready to have sex with him, but I have no idea what to do. I dont want it to be weird and I want him to enjoy it.. please give me any tips and suggestions. ! THanks

also take time to learn about your own body. know your turn-ons and orgasms. only after you are comfortable with yourself, then you could share yourself with another person.
start with lots of kissing and caressing... make sure you're very turned on and comfortable both physically and mentally. don't be thinking that intercourse must happen. just enjoy the closeness and the special feelings. if it feels at all "weird", then you're not ready. most important of all... protection.
And what makes you think he wouldn't enjoy it? Doesn't he enjoy everything else you two do? He'll enjoy it.
See your gyno, get a physical, and get on birth control....you'll still need condoms for STD's......and you might want to get some lubricant, just in case you need it. Then relax and enjoy.