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Flirting
| Tue, 04-05-2005 - 6:25pm |
Has anyone ever tried this? Go to a bar with your SO, but go in separately and sit down at different tables. Then watch each other while you flirt and talk with strangers. Nothing too serious, just watching each other do some innocent flirting with other people. Then go home with each other and have a terrific night of sex, just the two of you.
My SO and I are thinking of doing this. We are both very secure in our relationship with each other and get turned on when watching each other flirt. It's almost like acting out a threesome fantasy without actually doing it. We would never take it that far, but it just sounds like a good way to act out a fantasy.

My DH and I do a version of this when we're on vacation or out of town. We like to go down to the hotel bar or club separately and pretend we don't know each other. The difference is that we flirt with one another, not other people in the bar.
Of course, if someone is attempting to flirt with me or my DH before the other arrives, and that has happened in the past, then we just move in and take over.
Neither of us feel comfortable purposely involving others in our little games though.
No, only because it might be harder to get out of than I might anticipate ('Can I call you?' 'What's your number?' 'What are you doing tomorrow night?' 'Could I give you a goodnight kiss?' kind of thing) and I'd hate for someone to think that I was leading them on. Don't misunderstand, I don't think it's wrong, I just wouldn't want to extricate myself from an unanticipated sticky situation.
We *have* gone in separately, started talking to each other and then kissing and left with each other. Pretend we're picking each other up.