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| Tue, 08-23-2005 - 4:27pm |
I didn't call her a hoe just because she slept with him on the first night...i said it because she has done that with so many guys on the first night. How do I know? We have some of the same mutual friends, some of whom have told her she needs to stop being so promiscous.
I had sex with my ex the first time I met him...but I don't have sex with every man who asks for my number on the first night....there is a difference.

But it doesn't matter who or how many people she slept with.
For YOU, there is a difference, for others, there isn't. Many would say that because you chose to sleep with your BF on the 1st date that you're no different than you say she is but just being hypocritical about it.
IF this girl is being careful and responsible, using protection, not spreading disease and having fun, then it's no one's business what she does. Would I personally recommend that lifestyle? No, but we each get to make those choices for ourselves, don't we?
My question is are you holding guys to the same standards and judging them as harshly?
People will say all kinds of things, for all kinds of reasons so I will repeat...NO ONE knows what goes on behind close doors but the people involved. Everything else is hearsay.
Edited 8/23/2005 6:14 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001