Followup to "do most guys..."

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Followup to "do most guys..."
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Tue, 11-02-2004 - 1:17pm
"do most guys do this????" stirred up quite a debate about the responsibity of the male to ask before he ejaculates inside a woman, whether he can fairly assume that internal ejaculation is OK once she allows penetration. I have a related question for the women. Does it add to your enjoyment, emotionally or physically, if your partner ejaculates inside of you?

I dated a woman with whom I didn't have intercourse due to the lack of birth control, though we did pretty much everything else. She finally got on the pill. By coincidence, our first lovemaking with protection was on her birthday and I came inside of her. She later told me that cumming inside of her was her best birthday present. I had never thought of the emotional or physical plus of that until she said this. What's the deal, ladies?

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Tue, 11-02-2004 - 1:35pm
Personally, no, it adds nothing to my experience. It's evidence of my DH's pleasure but I experience that many other ways as well.
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Tue, 11-02-2004 - 2:04pm
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Tue, 11-02-2004 - 2:21pm
I was really amazed at all those posts. Personally, since I'm not on bc right now, I am relieved he's pulling out. And since we haven't discussd bc, I'm assuming he's pulling out to make sure there's no pregnancy. But when I get back on BC, I would expect him to come inside me. I think it adds to the overall enjoyment of both partners. Plus I can't imagine that a guy would actually prefer to pull out if there was no concern for pregnancy.
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Tue, 11-02-2004 - 2:43pm
One of the reasons that I hate condoms is because he can't ejaculate inside me properly. Yeah, yeah, I know we're talking only technicalities here, but having the skin on skin and his semen exploding loose inside me is the culmination of wonderful sex.

There are many posts about giving a guy a BJ to orgasm - however, I don't like to because having him orgasm inside me is so important to me.

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Tue, 11-02-2004 - 2:54pm
aisha said that she prefers her guy to cum inside her so she avoids making him cum when she gives him a BJ. My partner is the same. She will actually tell me that she doesn't want me to orgasm so that I can cum inside her.

She likes the uninterrrupted feeling of me in her, the feeling of my body against her body, the immediate post-orgasmic closeness both physically and emotionally, even the feeling of the semen afterwards makes her smile. Frequently my orgasm will trigger her orgasm too. Not really simultaneous but pretty close to it.

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Registered: 08-04-2004
Tue, 11-02-2004 - 2:55pm
Probably because you had been together for a long while without climaxing inside her ever. That is probably why she said that. I don't mind where my partner(s) climaxes. In fact, I find it very exciting during intercourse, if right before he is to finish, he tells me where he's going to come, then within a few seconds does just that. Very exciting and horny as heck.
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Tue, 11-02-2004 - 3:11pm
ITA..my man always tells me when he's getting ready to blast off inside of me, and I LOVE IT!!! Wouldn't have it any other way.
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Tue, 11-02-2004 - 3:44pm
My man also tells me what he's preparing to do inside of me. He gets very "determined" just before, stops moving, and I feel him jerking and squirting inside. I never feel as intimate or as female when he does that most masculine activity. Feeling it drop out the next day is a turn-on reminder of our lovemaking.

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Wed, 11-03-2004 - 7:34am
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Wed, 11-03-2004 - 11:43am
Ha-ha. Yep. The big announcement!

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