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foot fetish
| Tue, 06-26-2007 - 8:11pm |
ok here we go!!
i have had a real strong foot fetish since i was little (im 30 now).
of course this is towards women feet only . im disgusted of guys feet.
umm .. and not even all womens feet . depending on how attractive she and her feet are i can get very aroused . but some of the feet are turn offs.
umm.. and the crazy thing is i like it even more when its sweaty and smelly ( don't say eww please!) just the smell can drive me crazy. but this has caused problems in my life as well. can you all give some advice please.
i love to hear from everyone please!!

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I don't think it is fair to the woman that you ask that of IF she doesn't know you have this foot fetish. I don't think you are going to find many women that are willing to let you do that either until they get to know you better, that is unless you are willing to pay for it.
As far as dating the rest of the posters are SO right about not telling a woman about this on the first date.
I get the impression that you have never been involved in a sexual relationship yet from what issy said? If you haven't been you may find that a little foot play in a regular sexual relationship is all you need to satisfy your cravings. Its hard to tell until you cross that bridge.
Good luck you to pesar!
i mean what difference does it make to her?
Oh please......akin to rape just because it's a turn on for him but she doesn't know it's a turn on?
Good point, issytish. Let's ask pesar how he would feel if he were to find out that a male masseuse that was working on him was getting sexual pleasure from what he was doing.
BTW pesar, "please keep your stupid comments to yourself" strikes me as a little bit harsh of a reply, perhaps a reasonable response stating why you didn't feel her comments were correct would help to continue this conversaton in a manner that would benefit all.
Edited 7/7/2007 4:34 pm ET by sdartist
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I'm not sure if you're agreeing with me,
Actually, I'm agreeing that "rape" is not the proper term to apply to what pesar was asking about. Yet I do feel that if one is choosing to provide or accept a service or favor knowing (key word.."knowing") that they would be doing it in order to gain some sexual gratification without the previous consent of the other person, well that strikes me as somehow wrong. I must admit I can't exactly say why I feel that way, especially if the other party never knows the true purpose of the service or favor, just a feeling I have.
As to a man becoming aroused while being massaged by a female masseuse, oh I do know it happens. However, to me, there's a difference between a man (or a woman) becoming aroused inadvertently and seeking the same massage for the purpose of becoming aroused.
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One of my weak spots is giving a man a shoulder/back massage, gets my motor going every time.
Just to clarify ... akin may mean similar but it isn't the same thing. And receiving sexual pleasure from a fetish THAT the person hasn't revealed to me would make me FEEL violated almost as much as being raped would. I understand if you don't agree but it would really tick me off if someone did that to me.
Just because you don't agree IT is how it would make me feel and I am sure that there are others that would feel the same way.
If some guy I didn't know intimately came up behind me and grabbed my breasts I would feel violated too and that also is AKIN to rape. Not the same thing no, but because it causes similar emotions (just not as intense) it is AKIN to it. Having someone rub my feet then finding out later they have a foot fetish and didn't tell me would cause the same emotions. If the guy wants to go rub women's feet let him but I still say it is taking advantage of them unless they know.
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