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| Sat, 05-03-2008 - 7:54pm |
What are some of your favorite activities during foreplay? Are they ones that are sexual, like oral sex? Or are they activities that are not strictly sexual in nature, but something that you enjoy doing before intercourse?
I really enjoy giving Master BJs during foreplay because I know how much He enjoys it. But He repays me in kind and does something that I really enjoy: He massages my head and scalp while I am giving Him a BJ. This was something that my ex would do for me and when W/we first got together Master asked me what activities I enjoyed and I brought up the idea of a head/scalp massage. I just love them and Master really knows how to treat His sub well with this!
Another thing that He will sometimes do during foreplay is give me a shoulder/upper back massage. I have fibromyalgia and a lot of the pain is centered in my shoulders and upper back. So before intercourse and during foreplay He will often massage me in those areas so that helps to make sex less painful for me.

We don't really have any routines. Sometimes it's oral, sometimes it's toy play, there's even times when the foreplay happens long before we get to a place where we can really enjoy each other intimately.
Sounds like the massages work out great for you though. We've only incorporated massages into foreplay a couple of times.
Some are sexual, some are not sexual.
My SO is more stimulated intellectually than with porn or lingerie. Talking about things can get his motor running. (Well, it used to)
Anyway, a few years ago, we were playing Scrabble with my Mom and Nana. We played at least once a week. Nana had the electronic Scrabble dictionary. SO and I would key in sexually related words or acts and share the dictionary. Those nights were always hot when we got home!
Lately, there's enough interest for a little petting but that's it!
Chris:
Interesting to read others responses. Foreplay, hmnn....some days it seems the whole day is foreplay. On day where we are together a lot like the weekend, it is filled with looks and soft grazes of fingers or body parts on